Getting over someone requires that you begin to let them go in your mind first and foremost.
That’s really where it starts.
You have to tell yourself that you are moving forward with your life and letting this person go.
You have to be very sincere about this.
Oftentimes, people say that they want to get over someone but then they keep staring at their phones waiting for a phone call from them.
You really should be intent on letting this person go and it all starts with the way you think.
Now, when you have decided this, your next move should be to try to start doing new things in your life.
Your goal should be to learn or do something new each week.
It could be something completely mundane like taking a different route to work or talking to someone you normally ignore.
The point of this exercise is that the more you do it, the more you grow as a person.
Growth is such a crucial factor in all of this.
Growth allows your mind to start developing in ways that will amaze you.
As you learn or do something new each week, you are essentially broadening your world.
You are beginning to see what is around you that you have been blinded to seeing.
You were blinded to seeing all these other opportunities because you were so caught up in this person.
You see how that works?
You see how different it feels when you are out and about and you are actually noticing other people, acknowledging other people or even observing the scenery?
You begin to look at your world with fresh eyes the more you invite something new into it.
Hence, it is so important that you start adding to your life.
The more you partake in what is going on around you and become a part of it, the more you move forward.
It will feel like you have been born again.
You notice that beautiful mountain that you have always ignored.
You notice that gorgeous park that you always drive past but you never acknowledge.
You may even stop by and feed the gorgeous birds, something you would have never done in the past.
Everything that you see and start doing becomes new and fresh.
That’s what you need. That feeling of newness and freshness in your life.
Maybe it is time you picked up on that hobby that you have been ignoring.
Perhaps you have always wanted to learn how to play tennis.
Now is the time to do it.
This is something fresh and new that you would be introducing into your life.
This is something that will infuse some new energy into your life that you haven’t had for a while.
So, yes, you should take that tennis course. Don’t delay, sign up today and start learning.
Whatever it is that you have a passion for or have a relatively high level of interest in, start doing it.
Do not put it aside.
The more you are engaged and introducing the new into your life, the more preoccupied your life and your mind becomes.
Once you get to this level, you have gotten over this person.
Your life would simply be too rich and too full to care anymore.
You would be looking forward to more that your exciting life has to offer and what new experiences you are about to have.
That gives you very little time to get hung up on this person that you are trying to get over.