Meet girls in new places.
Available girls don’t solely hang out at the bar.
For example, girls love exercise classes.
These are classes like zumba, kickboxing, yoga, etc.
There are a lot of available girls here.
Be open to meeting them in these places.
There has to be a lifestyle change.
Yes, you have to open yourself up to participating in a class.
Have it be something that you have an interest in, so that you stick with it for a longer period of time.
The longer you stick with an activity, the greater the odds you build a connection with one or more of these girls.
Hang out at bookstores and coffee shops.
These are the studious girls, who look for substance in their relationships.
They aren’t part of the bar scene.
Apportion time out of your day to go to these locations.
Go to a bookstore or coffee shop near you.
Do this on a regular basis.
Go through the book aisles.
Find a spot and read.
Eventually, you encounter girls who are regulars, who have also observed you over the last few weeks.
Develop an interest in the books they pick out.
Observing you at the bookstore frequently, especially when you are reading something they often read, piques their curiosity.
Now is your opening to have a conversation with them.
It is a lot easier for them to open up to you when they have seen you coming to the bookstore or coffee shop over the course of the last few weeks.
These are girls with substance who purposely avoid the bar scene and look for intellectuals when they consider dating someone.
Check out volunteer programs.
Lots of girls volunteer at the local hospital, school, food or homeless shelter, non-profit organizations and animal rescues.
With a genuine interest in helping others, volunteer at one of these locations.
Volunteering with the sole purpose to meet girls is insincere and they pick up on it, ruining your odds with them.
Meet girls at community functions.
Girls are naturally social creatures.
They like being part of the community and society at large.
These girls organize blood drives, potlucks, fundraisers, etc.
One of these interest you?
Go find them there.
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