If your boyfriend gave you dead roses, he may be trying to tell you that he is unhappy with the relationship.
He may also be trying to let you know that his heart is breaking in this relationship.
To him, the romance may quite frankly be close to dead if not dead already. However, he is sending a message about how he feels.
This is typically helpful because it means that he may still want things to work out in some capacity.
Looking back on your relationship, you should be able to tell how things started going wrong.
If you are both typically on opposite sides of an issue and constantly fighting, this may be where it all started.
On the other hand, there may have been no fights or arguments and yet he still gave you dead roses.
This could be because there isn’t much life or spark in the relationship.
Some couples get into a relationship and become mundane. This can get boring relatively fast.
They begin to take their partner for granted and fall into a routine.
This can be a curse to a relationship and has to be avoided for the sake of the health and viability of your relationship.
If you are willing to salvage this relationship, there may be hope.
As mentioned earlier, his sending you dead roses could indicate that he may be unhappy with the relationship but he hasn’t given up entirely.
Your task will be to start a conversation with him and ensure that you learn where his unhappiness is coming from.
It has to be an honest conversation.
You should refrain from casting judgment or becoming defensive.
Remember, this is about trying to fix this problem so that your boyfriend feels better about the relationship.
You may not realize that you cause him heartache when you say certain phrases.
You may not realize that you make him feel inappropriate whenever he is around you and your family members.
You may not be aware of any of this because he has rarely voiced his opinion about his feelings.
This talk is his opportunity to do so and you have to listen.
Paying attention to what he has to say will help to give you more perspective as far as what he likes and doesn’t like about the relationship.
You may not have noticed that there are certain things that you do that really upset him.
This is a time to take account of what he is saying and if warranted, make the necessary changes in your behavior.