When a girl is not responding to your flirting, returning your compliments, hanging out one on one, or is constantly talking about how attractive other guys are, she has friendzoned you.

In all honesty, it isn’t hard to tell that you are friendzoned.

What makes it harder for you to tell are the feelings that you have for her.

They get in the way of your common sense.

You want more than anything for her to be your girlfriend, and tell you how much she wants to be with you.

This makes you overlook all of the obvious signs that she has shown you that you have been friendzoned.

When was the last time she asked you out to do an activity with her one on one, or ask you about what kind of girl you are into or attracted to?

When was the last time she asked you if you were dating anyone, or told you that she would love to learn more about you?

These moments have never happened to you.

She is perfectly content getting to know you on a surface level.

She doesn’t crave that much information about you.

Instead, she already has enough information on you to make a judgment on how she looks at you.

This is when she puts you in a category of friend or romantic interest.

When she puts you in a category of friend, she is open to hanging out with you, but only alongside various friends.

As her platonic friend, she knows she can turn to you whenever she has a problem with a guy she likes or is dating.

She trust that you are going to be there to comfort her and say nice words to her.

Once you have made her feel better, she goes right back to him and you are left wondering why.

You are so aghast about this behavior.

At this juncture, he convinces himself that she is going through a phase, but is sure to come back to her senses, realizing she likes you instead.

Time passes and she persists in being with this new romantic interest in her life.

You wonder why this is, continuously asking yourself about why she hasn’t come around to liking you and leaving this new guy.

She doesn’t come around to you.

Even in the event that she breaks up with this new guy, she only moves on to the next guy, while you are left standing and waiting.

You have been waiting all this time, and yet, she doesn’t see you the way you want her to.

All you are is her friend.

It’s time for you to come to terms with the fact that she sees you as a friend, if you hope to move forward with your life.

No matter how much you wish she changes this mindset, it’s not going to.

She has put you in a category of friendship and you won’t ever get out of it.

Do yourself a favor by accepting this and moving on.

You have already wasted a bunch of opportunities to be with a variety of girls, as you have been waiting on her to finally see you as more than a friend.

Don’t waste any further time with this girl, desperately wanting romance with her.

Move forward with your life.