Guys like to talk about themselves when engaged in conversation with someone, and this has much to do with a degree of self-centeredness that is evident in the early stages of dating.

People love talking about themselves and guys are no different.

So, to have a fun conversation with a guy, get him to talk about himself.

Ask him a question about a favorite pastime or what he does on the weekends.

This gets him to open up about himself in a number of avenues.

In doing this, you have opened up the conversation with this guy.

A guy that is interested in you is bound to throw a question back at you.

Once this happens, a real back and forth conversation is born.

It feels natural.

You are getting to know him better, and he is getting to know you better.

There is a sense of connection and mutual interest.

Guys like to talk about topics that girls aren’t known to talk about.

He is asking a girl her opinion on a topic that is male-dominated.

For instance, he asks the girl about to do with sports or video games.

Naturally, he is a guy who loves to talk about these topics, and brings them up as he is talking to a girl.

He doesn’t know whether you are in the minority of girls who would be open to talking about topics that are more male-oriented.

That being said, if you show him that you are interested in talking about this stuff or demonstrate that you have some knowledge about them, he is going to want to talk to you all day.

Think about it for a second.

When you talk among your girl friends, what topics rarely come up in conversation?

Sports, video games, cars, gadgets, politics, technology, etc.

As a red-blooded male, he is interested in a few of these topics, or all of them.

In having conversations with him around these topics, along with a poignant sense of interest and knowledge, he is absolutely going to love talking to you.

Furthermore, guys love flirtatious humor in conversation.

They love to have harmless flirtatious banter that goes back and forth.

This is how he gauges sexual chemistry with a girl.

A girl that responds positively to his flirtatious jokes is a massive plus to a conversation.

Especially when the girl responds well to flirting that isn’t politically correct or appropriate.

If you are alright with this sort of conversation, show him that you are.

Some guys are cautious in conversation at first.

He wants to flirt but isn’t sure about how the girl would handle it.

A guy that knows you are totally game for this sort of conversation, and enjoy it, is significantly motivated to instigate and maintain a conversation with you.

Knowing that he can be himself in conversation, makes him that much more comfortable with the girl, and this bodes well for you as a girl that is romantically interested in him.