Yes you can.
You just have to ensure that you spend enough time interacting with the girl in order to know whether she is fun loving or not.
A girl may initially act like she is fun loving when she really isn’t.
She may do this because she knows that you like fun loving girls and she wants to appease you by pretending that she is a fun loving girl.
The problem with this is that once you get into a relationship with her, her true nature will eventually show itself.
If she suddenly becomes serious or doesn’t want to go out and do fun things with you anymore, you would feel like you are dating someone totally different.
You wouldn’t feel particularly good about this.
It would feel as though you wasted your time in choosing to enter a relationship with this girl.
This is why it is really crucial that you get to know a girl quite well before you choose to get into an exclusive relationship with her.
If a fun loving girl is an absolute must for you, you should do what you can in order to ensure that the girl you are in a relationship with is that kind of girl.
This means that while you are dating her, you should engage in different fun activities together and see how enthusiastic she is about them.
Again, as I mentioned earlier, there are some girls who could fake being fun loving.
What you should do to ensure that she is for real is to then see whether she begins to suggest fun activities that the both of you can do.
In the beginning, you would be setting the example by suggesting fun things that you can both do.
However, in order to ascertain whether she is truly a fun loving girl, you should avoid making suggestions of fun things to do at a certain point in time.
This is when you are giving her the opportunity to begin making suggestions of her own.
If she is a bona fide fun loving girl, she will start making suggestions of fun things you can both do.
She may even tell you that she would like for you to experience a particular fun activity that she loves doing.
In essence, she would love to share that fun activity with you.
The more often she makes suggestions about fun activities that you can both partake in, the more likely she is truly a fun loving girl.
This is one of the best ways to tell.
You should always give this time.
In other words, really get to know this girl and her personality before getting into a relationship with her.
Time is always a great indicator of someone’s true personality.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is when they get into a relationship too quickly without having had an opportunity to truly know what kind of person they are dealing with.
If you want a fun loving girl, take your time as you get to know and observe her.
This will help you tremendously in finding that fun loving girl in a way that makes your interaction with her a lot more honest and true.
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