Loving two people at the same time is certainly not unrealistic, given that the two individuals in question have the potential to meet different needs that you are looking for in a partner.
One of these individuals responds to your emotions and mode of thinking, connecting with you on a viscerally deep basis.
The second individual that you love has a set of completely different attributes that you equally love.
He appeals to a different set of emotions that you have, or understands you in a manner you crave.
It is possible to love two people at the same time when there is a combination of similar and dissimilar attributes about either of them that appeal to you.
You are at a place where you are getting certain emotional needs met by one of them, but not all.
The second individual in this equation is providing the extra that you need.
Basically, one of the individuals is meeting specific emotional needs that the second individual isn’t, and vice versa.
In combining the two, you have a whole.
You are essentially getting all of your emotional needs met, which makes you more emotionally fulfilled.
As you were talking to multiple dating prospects in a search for a partner, you narrow down your dating options until you have reached a couple of potential partners.
But, you hit a quagmire.
You aren’t sure of who to go with yet.
As a result, you continue to see each of them and additional time elapses.
As time elapses, one would think that at some point, you would be able to tell which one you want to be with.
Yet, you are continuing to have a hard time making that decision, as either of these individuals are appealing to different facets of your personality.
Unbeknownst to you, you fall in love with each of them.
You didn’t see it coming, being that you were holding out to see which one you wanted to have as a partner.
So much time elapsed that your mind fell in love with either individual.
Now, you are in a dilemma.
What you have to ask yourself at this point is whether it is best to keep going on like this, or whether you should choose one, or neither of them.
If you continue to want to have a relationship with at least one of them, take a moment to figure out which one of them is the best option for your future.
Which one seems to be the closest match to what you want out of life.
This is the one you choose.
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