When a guy is confused between two girls, ask yourself whether it is worth your while being stuck in the middle, and how much worth you put on yourself.
A guy that is confused about you, is clearly not sure about what he even wants.
The danger of waiting on a guy to make a decision on which girl he wants is in the scary reality that he never comes to this decision.
He doesn’t know which way to turn, and as a result, he ends up either going with none of you or decides to simultaneously date the pair of you.
Guys in a position like this get drunk with the power that comes with being the object of desire of each girl.
This sort of attention from two girls is so intoxicating that it gets harder for him to let go of it.
He knows that in making a decision on which girl to choose, he loses out on the second girl.
If he loses the second girl based on his decision, he loses the attention that he has gotten so used to receiving from that girl.
A number of guys, out of fear of losing this attention, stay in indecision until their hand is either seriously forced, or someone other than the two girls that he has been indecisive about comes along to wrest his attention.
Many girls fall into the trap of believing that the guy is on the verge of making a decision.
They do everything they can to win over his approval and make him feel good.
With each attempt, she wants to gain his favor, and thinks that she is getting closer and closer to being chosen by him.
Sadly, this effort is all for nothing when all he cares about is getting attention from her.
Attention like this, coming from two girls, is doubly intoxicating.
You don’t want to be the one who is left with nothing to show for it, in the event that all he wants is to bask in the intoxicating allure of all this attention.
It is in your best interest not to wait around on this guy.
If he legitimately likes you, there wouldn’t be any doubt in his mind about which girl he wants to be with.
He wouldn’t need to juggle the pair of you.
The fear of losing out on you to suitors would be so high, he would already be declaring that you are the one he wants.
Right now, there are no stakes for him.
He has no fear of losing you, and this puts him in complete control.
When a guy has no stakes to worry about, he becomes lackadaisical and far more indecisive.
If you believe that you are a catch, don’t let him get away with treating you as though you are not that important.
Quit waiting on him and move on.
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