The typical outgoing and chatty girl goes for a guy who is like her.
She wants a guy who is more on the chatty side than the quiet side.
An outgoing chatty girl is going to look for characteristics she has in common with a guy.
A guy who is outgoing and chatty matches her intensity or exceeds it.
A quiet guy doesn’t do this.
She is worried about having those quiet and awkward moments with a quiet guy.
This is the moment where there is silence.
There is nothing being said, as the quiet guy doesn’t know where else to take the conversation.
Most outgoing and chatty girls don’t want to be in this position, which is why they prefer dating their match in a guy.
An outgoing and chatty girl has friends who are like her.
She does worry about how a quiet guy would interact with her friends.
Her friends are important to her.
She takes them seriously and doesn’t want to bring anyone around them that makes them feel anxious or awkward.
She envisions a conversation that this quiet guy would have with her friends.
She plays out that conversation in her head, arriving at the conclusion it would be awkward.
She foresees this quiet guy unable to be comfortable enough around her friends to keep a conversation going.
In this vision, her friends are trying their best to keep the conversation going.
Her friends are running out of topics to talk about, considering that this quiet guy is giving them a one sentence response to every question they ask.
This outgoing and chatty girl doesn’t want to put her friends in this position.
She goes for the outgoing and chatty guy as opposed to the quiet guy.
So, it is not always just a case of how she feels she will get along with the quiet guy.
This girl worries about how this quiet guy socializes with her friends.
If her friends mean a lot to her, she wants them to have the best experience possible getting to know a guy that she is dating.
Believing that the quiet guy won’t deliver, she doesn’t want to be with the quiet guy.
Now, this being said, there are exceptions.
There are outgoing and chatty girls who do like the quiet guy.
They are attracted to what makes this person who they are.
They perceive a sense of mystery around this guy and this leads to an attraction.
Notwithstanding, a guy’s quietness only gets him so far, even with these girls.
She is prepared to make all the initial moves but eventually wants the quiet guy to reciprocate.
When the quiet guy doesn’t do so, she decides to end her time with him and move on.
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