Clearly, your boyfriend has dropped the ball.
He isn’t doing what he once did, as someone who used to take you out on dates, but no longer does.
You practically have to beg him to get him to take you out, but to no avail.
Sadly, he is perfectly content staying at home and playing video games or doing nothing.
As he has behaved like this, you have found yourself systematically losing attraction for him.
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A spark is but fleeting.
What makes a relationship endure is how you connect on a personal level.
You aren’t attracted to your girlfriend’s personality.
This is a serious issue.
Regardless of the spark you have for each other, the health and longevity of a relationship relies on much more than a spark.
A one-night stand is what he is looking for.
He hinted at it due to his uncertainty about how open you are to the idea of having a one-night stand.
Given this uncertainty, he believed it more prudent to hint at a one-night stand, as opposed to telling you outright that this is what he wants.
A one-night stand is what he has wanted from you since day one.
Sadly, you were thinking that he wanted a much more substantial type of relationship.
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As long as he is actively working on resolving his emotions, staying single for a minimum of 3 to 6 months is sufficient.
The reality is, you don’t know how deep the emotional damage is, unless you give it time.
There are guys who don’t feel severe emotional repercussions in the immediate aftermath of a relationship’s end.
Sadly, he misinterprets this as a sign that he is in the clear to quickly get into a new relationship soon after the old one has ended.
This is a massive blunder, given that any repressed emotions stemming from his old relationship are destined to surface in his new relationship.
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Giving you closure requires that he explain why he is breaking up with you.
He doesn’t want to have that sort of confrontation.
It means that he has to dig deep and ask himself why he wanted the breakup.
That requires far too much introspection.
Even if he were to think up an explanation, he knows that he would have to contend with you being emotional about the breakup.
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