In spite of how much you like him, it is never okay to be a rebound.
A realistic pitfall is in how liable you are to develop feelings for him the longer you date him.
As your feelings for him grow, you conveniently convince yourself that he no longer sees you as a rebound.
After all, a significant amount of time has passed, and you have shared so much with him.
People have a habit of getting into new relationships before they are emotionally ready.
They do this because they don’t want to be alone.
They want to have someone new in their lives in the hopes that this provides a distraction and replacement.
The idea is to use this new person to avoid having to look back on the previous relationship and deal with the emotional repercussions.
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It isn’t unusual that you were turned off by his lack of experience.
When he didn’t seem to know what he was doing as he was being physically intimate with you, that wasn’t lost on you.
At first, you wanted to believe that it was simply jitters from it being the first time you were sharing an intimate moment together.
Except, that wasn’t the case.
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The fact that you are thinking about breaking up with your boyfriend is a clear indication of how unhappy you are feeling.
That said, he is your boyfriend.
There are reasons why you chose to make him your boyfriend in the first place.
Given all that, determining whether this is resolvable is a more clearheaded and wise approach.
Men aren’t adept at processing their emotions at the time a courtship or relationship ends.
Instead, he looks to date new women.
He thinks that all he requires is to date someone new and never have to deal with the emotional repercussions of losing out on you.
That changes when those dating ventures don’t work out.