When you feel safe and comfortable with someone, it’s natural to see relationship potential in the person.
As you spend time with him, you grow fond of him.
A guy that you already bear a degree of attraction for becomes that much more attractive.
Even if you have never had an attraction for him, spending quality time with him makes you susceptible to falling for him.
A feeling of security and attraction for this guy makes you want to be in a relationship with him.
There is an emotional and physical connection with him that constantly keeps him in your thoughts.
It’s easy to see yourself in a relationship with him for an extended period of time, if not forever.
There is a strong desire to change the status quo when you want to be in a relationship with someone.
This is when you are no longer satisfied with merely having this person as a friend or hangout buddy.
This is a guy that you know has substantial capacity to be greater than a platonic friend.
It’s not sufficient anymore to keep doing what you have been doing with him in this safe and platonic relationship.
At first, you were fine with the lighthearted conversations and fun banter.
That was enough to keep you satisfied with the relationship as it stood.
At this stage in your friendship with him, you have changed your mind.
The relationship as it stands is no longer enough.
You want more.
There have been several occasions where you have envisioned what it would be like to be in a relationship with him.
You have already thought about the fun activities that await such a relationship.
Fantasizing about the first kiss or the first time you sleep with him is never far from your thoughts.
The longer your relationship with him is at a status quo, the more dissatisfied you are with it.
In the back of your mind, with each and every encounter you have with him, you hope that he finally takes his relationship with you to the next level in making it romantic.
You want to hear that he likes you.
But, he doesn’t tell you this nor does he change the status quo.
Naturally, you get frustrated.
You become short-tempered with him, or too sensitive to everything that he says, without any good reason.
This is how you act up, frustrated about the status quo, and his reluctance to change it to one of romance.
When you know that this is how you have been behaving of late, this is your signal that you want to be in a relationship with him.
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