He Has A Girlfriend But Still Contacts Me Every Day

Share This Post

He Has A Girlfriend But Still Contacts Me Every DayWhen he has a girlfriend but still contacts you every day, he may feel comfortable sharing certain things with you that he doesn’t feel comfortable sharing with his girlfriend.

Oftentimes, this is a guy that just wants to open up to someone else because he doesn’t feel that he can do that in his current romantic relationship. Hence, his current relationship may be lacking.

You may be the person that he feels the most comfortable with on certain issues.

You may be the person that makes him feel like he can be expressive without worrying about being judged.

He may be constantly dealing with a girlfriend that he feels won’t allow him to be himself.

She may not be understanding of his viewpoints or even willing to hear him out.

If you have very easygoing conversations with him that tend to last a while, he is demonstrating that he finds it comforting and reassuring to talk to you.

You may be giving him that outlet that he needs.

He may want to contact you every day because he wants to know that his views and opinions are important.

You are giving him something that he simply isn’t getting from his girlfriend. An avenue of expression and freedom that allows him to feel better about himself.

This may be one reason why he contacts you every day even though he has a girlfriend.

He may also be doing this because he feels like his girlfriend has taken him for granted.

People often fall into this predicament when they get into relationships.

They get used to their mate and begin to take them for granted.

When this happens, they are no longer trying to keep the relationship fresh.

They are no longer putting out an effort to get to know their partner even more.

They start ignoring their partner’s needs because they are too comfortable.

This is where the partner who is most affected starts trying to find something outside of the relationship to help them cope.

This is where you come in.

You are someone that he can talk to and feel like he still means something.

You become a boost to his ego and his sense of self-worth.

You are laughing at his jokes. He misses what that felt like because his girlfriend can’t be bothered.

You are telling him about his amazing personality.

He loves this.

His girlfriend is no longer doing this either.

You are curious about his passions and want to learn more.

He loves this.

His girlfriend hasn’t asked him about a passion of his for months.

You want to know more about his hopes.

He loves this too.

His girlfriend may not care much about his hopes nor does she encourage him to attain them.

This is the kind of attention that he craves because his girlfriend has become too much of a bore.

She has taken the relationship for granted and isn’t willing to keep the passion alive.

She has become lazy in the relationship.

When he contacts you every day, he feels rejuvenated.

Amid all this, he may still totally love his girlfriend.

This emotion may have never left him and perhaps there is a place in his mind where he hopes that things will change between them and get better.

This is why he may not take this any further than contacting you and having inconsequential or lighthearted conversations.

As long as he keeps things between the both of you on this level, he avoids getting emotionally involved with you, which could jeopardize his relationship with his girlfriend.


Join The Discussion

Home Forums Topics

Viewing 2 topics - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)
Viewing 2 topics - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)

2 thoughts on “He Has A Girlfriend But Still Contacts Me Every Day”

  1. This is what is happening to me with a guy but I don’t know what to do because I want to be with him so much but I don’t see it ever happening the way it is he wont leave her !!!!!!!!!!!!!

  2. Hi Paula,

    It’s best to not get involved with him even if it seems like he is really interested in you.

    He will most likely not leave his girlfriend over you and even if he were to, this wouldn’t be a promising way to start a new relationship.

    Try to focus on other aspects of your life and keep your interaction with him at a minimum.

    In other words, avoid communicating with him every day and when you both communicate, keep the conversations short.

    This way, you keep yourself from becoming emotionally attached to him.

    Becoming emotionally attached will make it that much harder for you to keep yourself from hoping that he will become romantically involved with you some day.

Comments are closed.