How Do You Find A Good Woman?

How Do You Find A Good Woman?

Consider what the definition of a good woman is, to you.

Figure this out to start with.

Steer clear of conforming to what you think society at large deems to be the definition of a good woman.

As your own person, what works for you in a partner doesn’t necessarily work for someone else or society at large.

Once you define what a good woman is to you specifically, you are on the right path to finding her.

The next step is to use the process of elimination to mitigate the chances of failure by thinking back to where you met your previous girlfriends.

Unfortunately, you haven’t had a history of dating good women.

Where did you meet these women?

For example, if you met them at bars and nightclubs, avoid going to these locations on your quest to find a good woman as a future girlfriend.

A poor track record of never having found a good woman at these locations is a sign that you should circumvent them.

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This doesn’t mean that good women cannot be found at bars and nightclubs.

It’s more so that you personally haven’t had much luck in meeting good women at these locations.

Now that you have done this, where do you find a woman that meets your definition of what a good woman is?

Put yourself in environments that these women frequent.

For example, if your definition of a good woman is one who volunteers her time to help others, put yourself in an environment where a woman like this frequents.

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A food kitchen or food bank.

A blood drive.

A pet shelter.

There are a variety of volunteer platforms where these women abound.

To take it a step further, create your own volunteer platform around a charity that you are passionate about.

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With this strategy, you get to attract these women to you.

As the creator or leader of the platform for charity, you are that much more appealing to the women you attract to it.

Women love leaders and creators.

The moment she learns that you are the one who created the platform for charity, she is instantly interested in who you are as a person.

This leads to extemporaneous conversation that opens the door to enlightening each other about your lives.

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Additionally, to find a good woman you must be certain that you are emotionally ready for one.

Going back to the topic of your previous relationships that never worked out, ask yourself about whether you have been emotionally compromised by these past relationships.

Generally, men have a hard time processing their emotions at the end of a heartbreaking relationship, leading to relationship woes with future girlfriends.

You won’t attract a good woman if she senses that you aren’t emotionally ready for one.

Women are profoundly intuitive in reading men.

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She knows when there is emotional baggage, even when the guy keeps making himself believe that he doesn’t have emotional baggage.

A good woman wants to date a good man.

Should she perceive that you have negative emotional baggage from a previous relationship, she doesn’t deem you a good candidate for a healthy relationship, and chooses not to get into a committed relationship with you.

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