It isn’t.

Ambition in a partner is usually more of a quality that women look for in men.

For men, ambition is not anywhere near as high a requirement in who they want to date, as it is for women.

Basically, a man’s expectation is that a woman isn’t a complete slouch who has no impulse control over her spending, nor any financial responsibility, keeping herself in constant debt.

That’s really it for most men.

He wants a woman to be somewhere in the middle as far as ambition is concerned.

In other words, he doesn’t want to date a woman who is a complete slouch with bad spending habits and no financial responsibility, and he doesn’t what the other extreme, a woman with too much ambition.

A woman with too much ambition is too fixated on her career and earning power.

This worries a lot of men.

You see, most men aren’t ambitious.

He prefers to do just enough to keep from having to live with his parents, but he isn’t racing to become the next CEO of the company he works for.

He wants to stay in his comfort zone with minimal risk to his finances.

A safe and secure job is good enough for him.

A woman who has ambition or too much ambition is a threat to him.

He fears that her ambition makes her susceptible to believing that she is better than him, which leads to her disrespect of him.

Men know that they are expected by society to be the breadwinner in the home.

A woman who is more ambitious than him, ends up climbing the corporate ladder of her career, consequently making more money than him and becoming the breadwinner in the home.

This is where he gets scared about losing his value as a man to this woman, and to society at large.

With this in mind, your lack of ambition isn’t much of a liability or turn off, given that the majority of men in society also lack ambition.

In the end, all you have to do is either fall somewhere in the middle of the spectrum, or just have less ambition than the average man, which is already on the low end.

If you fall in either category, you will have no trouble attracting men.

Whether he is an ambitious man or not, the most important thing for him is that the woman he dates isn’t financially irresponsible.

Dating a financially irresponsible woman would be a financial burden on him, putting him at risk of going bankrupt or becoming financially insolvent.

Whether he is ambitious or not, no man wants to date a woman who leeches off of him and drags him into financial ruin.

What caliber of man can you attract with a lack of ambition?

Almost every man.

Where a lack of ambition hampers your ability to attract men is when you are dealing with men who want to date a woman who takes care of them.

These are guys who rarely keep a job for long, and would much rather spend their days watching a sports channel and drinking beer.

Something tells me you aren’t looking to attract men like this.