An Ex Who Dumped Me Is Now Sending Me Memes?

An Ex Who Dumped Me Is Now Sending Me Memes?

It strikes you as odd that she dumped you, breaking your heart by so doing, and is now sending you memes.

Since then, you have been attempting to move on, though struggling to do so.

Out of nowhere, she is now sending you memes, instigating a rage of emotions within you.

Her memes have triggered memories about her that are so good, you get lost in them.

The elation does give way to sadness, knowing that those memories were from a much better time.

Why is your ex who dumped you now sending you memes?

She hasn’t met someone new to fulfill the emotional void that was left behind in her life after she dumped you.

She is in-between boyfriends right now.

Unfortunately, this is a time that she is more susceptible to using you to fulfill that emotional void.

In sending you memes, she gets the attention she wants whenever you acknowledge them and engage with her.

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She gets this emotional fulfillment without having to be in a relationship with you.

It absolves her from the responsibility of fulfilling any needs that you might have, whether it be physical or emotional.

This is why you must be careful that you don’t make yourself believe that these memes signify that she wants you back.

She doesn’t.

The memes don’t erase the fact that she dumped you.

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She dumped you for a reason.

You weren’t meeting her needs anymore and that hasn’t changed.

Nonetheless, since there is an emotional void in her life right now, she wants to fulfill that emotional void in getting your attention through sending you memes.

She gets to eat her cake and have it too, while she is in-between boyfriends.

You didn’t want this breakup to begin with, which leaves you in an emotionally weakened state.

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Be cognizant of this.

Right now, your weakened emotions make you susceptible to giving her what she wants, believing that through acknowledging her memes, you open the door to her coming back to you.

This is unlikely.

The outcome instead has you wasting your time and energy.

In the end, once she has found a new guy to fulfill her emotional needs, she stops sending you memes.

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Guilt is a factor in some of these cases.

Not every woman likes carrying the guilt that comes with dumping a guy who adored her.

To appease that guilt, she sends him feel-good memes to cheer him up.

This makes her feel better for having dumped you, and clears her conscience to a degree.

In knowing that she is putting you in a better mood by sending you feel-good memes, she gets to go about her day without having to deal with a cloud of guilt hanging over her head.

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With this mindset, she tells herself that maintaining a pseudo-friendship with you is a good idea.

A pseudo-friendship that has her popping into your life with feel-good memes from time to time, as she is in the process of finding a new boyfriend.

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