Doing OnlyFans is something your girlfriend has been considering doing for a while.

She didn’t suddenly bring it up out of nowhere.

It’s not like she needs the money.

She already has a good job and has her life together.

This is why it took you aback when she asked you about whether you would be comfortable with her doing OnlyFans.

You are worried about this.

Although she has demonstrated a healthy appetite for watching pornographic content ever since you met her a few months ago, you never thought it would get as far as her wanting to do OnlyFans.

For her, it’s about the thrill.

Her words.

For you, the idea of her wanting to do OnlyFans is fraught with uncertainty.

On the one hand, you know that you aren’t comfortable with her doing OnlyFans, but at the same time, you don’t want to stop her from doing something she has conceivably been thinking about doing for a while.

She makes you happy and you want her to be happy too.

You wouldn’t want to be the type of boyfriend that holds her back from doing something she has been curious about doing for a while.

Jealousy is a personality trait you have never espoused in relationships.

That being said, it’s one thing for her to want to do something thrilling, it’s another thing for that thrill to be sex work on OnlyFans.

She has told you that it would be solo work, but it still has you worried.

What to make of this?

Well, given that your girlfriend has already demonstrated a penchant for watching pornographic content, now that she wants to do OnlyFans, she is looking to mimic the women she watches on screen.

The idea of having so many men be turned on by her fulfills several emotional needs.

It makes her feel desired, empowered, validated, and gets her excited.

This means that she isn’t getting enough of this from you.

This is where you have a problem.

Given that she already has a good job and doesn’t need the money, her motivation has more to do with what is missing in the relationship.

A woman’s boyfriend is supposed to be enough to make her feel desired, validated, excited and empowered.

She shouldn’t have to go outside of her relationship with her boyfriend to get all this, unless they are missing in the relationship.

To be honest, she probably hasn’t thought this hard about why she wants to do OnlyFans.

She is primarily stuck on the idea of how thrilling doing OnlyFans would be.

Nevertheless, there are underlying issues within her relationship with you that she isn’t acknowledging.

Whether it be a dearth of excitement, validation, desirability, empowerment, or all of it, it’s best to have a conversation with her and find out now.

As long as she is open to working through these issues with you and strategizing a way to have those needs met in the relationship, there shouldn’t be a need for her to do sex work on OnlyFans.

Since you care about the health and durability of your relationship with her, it’s crucial you work on whatever underlying issues exist.

Without having this candid conversation with her, she is likely to join OnlyFans under the misleading notion that she is solely motivated by the thrill of it, when there is so much more to it.

Unfortunately, once she builds up a following of men on OnlyFans, the level of validation, desirability, excitement, and empowerment she gets is something you absolutely won’t be capable of competing with.

This is when you become obsolete, and your relationship ends.