In no uncertain terms, your girlfriend has told you that she doesn’t want you watching porn.

That took you by surprise.

You have been watching porn for a while, but it has always been a means to an end.

Getting off was the goal and nothing beyond that.

You have never been obsessed with any one girl you saw in a porn video.

Never a fanboy.

Not once have you been up into the wee hours of the night feverishly searching for the social media handles of your favorite pornstar and religiously watching her every post.

It has never been like that for you.

Watching porn is a means to an end for you.

Yet, your girlfriend doesn’t accept that.

No matter how harmless you believe it is, your girlfriend has made it clear that she is against you watching porn.

The sex life you two share is amazing.

Your libido hasn’t suffered owing to watching porn.

You have given her multiple orgasms and she has never been shy in expressing how happy you make her feel in the bedroom.

But when it comes to watching porn, she is intractable.

Even though you aren’t a fanboy and your sex life with her hasn’t been negatively affected at all, she is against you watching porn.

So you are curious as to why girlfriends are against their boyfriends watching porn, when porn isn’t adversely affecting the relationship in any way.

She doesn’t believe you need anything else.

You have her.

In her mind, she questions why you would need to watch porn when you have her as a girlfriend.

Although you aren’t a fanboy of any of these pornstars and your sex life with her hasn’t been negatively affected by watching porn, she questions the validity behind you watching porn.

Now, if you were single and watching porn, she might not be as against you doing it, as long as she doesn’t have a negative disposition towards porn, looking at it as a means by which women are sexually exploited.

As long as she doesn’t have a negative disposition towards porn, she isn’t as vexed with a guy who watches it when he is single.

Once she comes along and becomes his girlfriend, she doesn’t believe that porn is necessary anymore.

Furthermore, there is a degree of insecurity at play.

She wants to be the most desirable woman in your world.

After all, she is your girlfriend.

The thought that you are watching porn and getting off on some other woman makes her feel like she isn’t attractive enough for you.

It’s like her relationship with you is being violated by a third person.

That pornstar is an interloper in the relationship, even though she is behind a computer, tv or smartphone screen.

As far as your girlfriend is concerned, you might as well be cheating on her.

As long as you are getting off on some random pornstar you are watching on a screen, it doesn’t matter that you aren’t a fanboy, it’s akin to cheating in her book.

Getting you off is her job as your girlfriend, not that of a pornstar.