You love your boyfriend and feel lucky that you have him in your life.

That being said, you have run into problems in the bedroom.

Whenever you want to get on top, he refuses.

It drives you crazy at times.

You wish he would let you get on top.

This wasn’t an issue with your previous boyfriends.

They let you get on top without any objections and were totally game.

As much as you love your boyfriend, you get irritated when he doesn’t let you get on top during intimacy in the bedroom.

It is one of your favorite positions, if not your favorite, and it feels like you are missing out when he doesn’t let you do it.

Although you don’t want to cause any friction with him, it is beginning to bother you.

Your satisfaction in the bedroom matters.

It is never a good idea when satisfaction is relegated to one partner in the bedroom.

Although you like other things you two do in the bedroom, you are never left as satisfied as your boyfriend by the end of it.

Anything less than complete satisfaction in the bedroom, especially when it feels like your boyfriend is perpetually satisfied and you have been left out, builds resentment over time.

Resentfulness affects your sex life with him, along with various areas of your relationship with him.

You are quicker to anger for no reason over the dumbest stuff.

He messed up with a food order that he brought home and you are railing at him for it.

In the bedroom, out of spite, you stop doing stuff for him that you know he tends to like.

He is left unhappy with this, and the next thing you know, you two are fighting so much that regular sex with each other drastically diminishes.

This makes it easier for one or the two of you to look elsewhere to fulfill your physical needs and that means that someone is cheating.

Don’t let it get this far.

Let your boyfriend know that you want to get on top of him, as this is what gets you off the most.

A boyfriend who cares about your satisfaction in the bedroom is going to take this to heart and let you get on top.

The most popular objections that men have when they don’t let a girlfriend on top has to do with the loss of control and their inability to get off.

A caring boyfriend gets over this, knowing that his girlfriend’s satisfaction in the bedroom should be just as important to him as his own.

It’s okay to start slow.

You do a few minutes on top of him at first and over time build up to more as his confidence and comfort grows.

The sooner you talk to him about this and resolve it, the sooner you avoid the pitfalls that arise from having a sexually dissatisfied partner in a relationship.

As his girlfriend, you have every right to get off too.