In cases like this, the interest and chemistry wasn’t that strong to begin with.
It may have seemed like it was but it wasn’t.
When someone quickly loses interest with somebody they had just met and seemingly had real chemistry with, that person wasn’t that into the other in the first place.
I know that this can be difficult to understand.
If this person seemed like they were really interested and was showing you all kinds of chemistry through body language, you would naturally believe that their interest level was at a peak.
It really wasn’t.
They may have felt some initial interest for you and chemistry, however, they also wanted something more.
Their mind and body needed something more.
While they were interacting with you, they knew this.
They knew that there was some interest here and they were willing to pursue it and see where it led.
However, by the end of your interaction together, that extra spark or energy that they needed simply wasn’t there.
A person will go head on into a romantic pursuit and interaction without necessarily knowing where it is going.
There was an initial interest that got that person to start interacting but that doesn’t always lead to where they hoped it would.
This is why you would come across a situation where it seemed like the interest and chemistry was there and yet that person has quickly lost interest since your last interaction.
Again, there are a number of people who will give out a lot of energy at first in the hopes that by the end of your interaction with them, they would be at a whole new level of interest.
In essence, that initial interest or chemistry was simply a catalyst for what they hoped would happen by the end of your interaction with them.
They were hoping that it was all going to lead to a place of absolute interest and excitement.
They were hoping that by the end of your interaction with them, they would feel that powerful desire to want to know more and just be around you.
Hence, they give off a lot of energy in the beginning that may be forced in the hopes that they will get the pay off at the end.
A big part of them does hope that there is a pay off.
This is why they put in this kind of energy at the start.
However, by the end of it all, they just don’t feel it.
All the energy that they initially put in is depleted and they have nothing left to give.
Yes, this is something that happens quite often.
You may feel like the interest and chemistry with someone is strong and yet that person loses interest quickly.
The interaction simply didn’t lead where they were hoping that it would.
They expended all that energy at first in the hopes that it would lead to that place of heightened chemistry but it just didn’t.
As a result, out of gas or out of energy, they lose interest quickly and move on.
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