Women are generally pickier than men when it comes to dating preferences, and this has been the case since the dawn of man.
They usually look for someone that meets a number of criteria that matter to them.
It isn’t always enough that the man is good-looking.
For many, a good-looking man meets their visual requirements and this is obviously a great start and what gains their initial attention, but it doesn’t stop there.
The man has to appeal to them in other avenues.
There is a certain level of chemistry that women typically seek out when they are picking men.
How does the man now make them feel as a person?
How does he beguile them with his words?
What does he say to make them feel even more curious about the man as a person?
How does the man move his body as he speaks?
How does the man interact with her in tandem with the environment around him?
How does the conversation flow?
These are all cues that women pick up on.
Women are completely enamored by a guy who has the looks but also has a way of making her stop and pay attention to everything he has to say.
This is why you see women dating men who aren’t that visually appealing on the outside.
He has given her a taste of what makes him so uniquely special.
He has shown her charisma in his words and in the way he conducts himself through his body language.
Women are drawn to this.
You are a guy who believes you are doing all the right things and have all the right qualities.
You believe you are nice-looking and smart.
Women aren’t picking you and you are wondering why.
It has to do with the persona and characteristics you give off.
Women sense when you lack confidence or when your conversation is bland and too safe.
They sense when you are trying too hard.
This is where you fail.
A woman prefers a man who speaks his mind and isn’t afraid to go against societal norms.
She likes it when he shows his independence and a propensity to not always follow the straight and narrow path.
She likes it when he can be different in this fashion and be totally unapologetic being so.
Your problem is that you have been misleading yourself into believing you have been making all the right moves, when in reality you have been only playing it safe.
As a consequence, women don’t pick you.
A man on the other hand is less picky than a woman, as he is open to living with certain imperfections in personality and background, as long as he is attracted to her.
This can’t be said for most women.
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