Is She Actually Into Me Or Just Flirty?

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Is She Actually Into Me Or Just Flirty?

She is into you when she remembers little details about things you both have talked about or done.

She is into you when she communicates on a regular basis and asks you questions about yourself that are more elaborate and open-ended, her attention riveted.

She is just being flirty when she doesn’t communicate much, but when she does, you both playfully flirt.

Again, it’s important to understand that some girls do enjoy flirting but have no intention to take it any further than that.

Observe how often the both of you communicate.

Is it normally only in passing?

Does she actually text or call you on a regular basis?

Is the only time you tend to hear from her when she sends you a message through social media?

Only sending messages through social media can feel very impersonal.

The internet allows people to have a protective cyber wall that they can use as a buffer between themselves and someone else.

If she is maintaining a cyber wall between the both of you, it’s unlikely that she is actually into you.

If you normally communicate only in passing, there is a good chance that she is just being flirty.

In other words, you are not really in her thoughts that much when the both of you aren’t around each other.

When a girl is actually into you, she will want to communicate as much as possible.

She wouldn’t only communicate when the both of you are in the same vicinity.

Also, her texts to you would be relatively frequent.

They would also ask you about topics that don’t relate to sex or sensuality.

In other words, she would really want to know more about the type of person you are and your character.

Hence, she would ask you deeper questions. She would be curious about you.

If you were to receive texts from her that were normally quite short and almost always flirty, she may be simply enjoying a game of flirting.

She may even be killing time.

If her texts rarely go beyond the flirt, that may honestly be all she is interested in.

A lot of girls have guys that they simply flirt with.

They may send flirty texts to them or flirt with them in person.

However, they don’t take it any further than that.

If she were actually into you, the relationship may have started with flirting but at some point she would get serious.

She would want to know more because she may begin to develop feelings for you.

If she is not trying to know more, she hasn’t developed a deeper interest.

This typically means that she is still in the flirting stage and may seriously keep it there.

Yes, the longer this persists, the less likely she is interested in pursuing anything further than flirting.

Hence, observe your relationship.

Does she even know your friends?

Does she ask you about your family?

Has she tried hanging out with you by doing something that you love?

Does she remember your conversations?

Does she follow up those conversations with an interest in learning more about a particular topic that was mentioned earlier?

If she did all these things, she would actually be into you.

It’s important to understand this.

You have to be honest with yourself and make a judgment.

You may feel really good when you talk to her.

You may feel that all this flirting has to mean something.

However, the longer the flirting lasts without going any further than facetious intercommunication, the less likely she is actually into you.

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