Category Archives: First & Second Dates

How Long After A First Date Before You Start Getting Worried About Them Not Calling?

Anywhere from 3 days or more after the first date is when you may start to get worried about them not calling.

However, there are some exceptions.

If your date had told you that they had something planned for the next few days, perhaps a trip somewhere with family or friends, then you don’t have to be worried about it, yet.

Your date may be genuinely unavailable for a number of days to a week.

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Is It A Bad Sign If A Guy Texts Less After A Date?

It is sometimes a bad sign if a guy texts less after a date and other times it isn’t.

He may be showing you that he wasn’t too happy with how the date went. He may also be showing you that he is not quite sure of whether he should pursue this relationship any further.

If the texting has gotten to the point where he is no longer texting daily, this is a problem.

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Rescheduling Dates : How Many Times Before You Call It Quits?

When a person keeps rescheduling dates, they are not interested in you.

To reschedule dates over and over again without complying is not a good sign. It typically insinuates that this other person has other things that they are more interested in doing than in spending quality time with you.

It means that they have no real respect for your time and hence have very little respect for you.

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Does He No Longer Want To Go On The Date?

If he hasn’t called you to confirm the date, he may no longer want to go on the date.

If he hasn’t mentioned the date since the last time you two spoke, he may no longer want to go on the date.

If he seems more engaged with other activities and hasn’t even tried to contact you since mentioning the date, he may no longer want to go on the date.

If he never gave you a specific date, time and location for the date, he may no longer want to go on the date as he probably wasn’t even serious about it in the first place.

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How Much Should I Wait For The 2nd Date After A Great First Date? He Hasn’t Called/Texted In A Week. Is He Still Interested Or Should I Move On?

If it has been a week since your first date and he hasn’t asked you out on a second, he may not be interested in you.

There is a chance that he has lost that interest he may have initially had or that it has greatly diminished.

His lack of real action should be your guide.

A guy who had just as much fun as you did on the first date would want to date you soon after. He would rarely wait this long.

There can always be extenuating circumstances.

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My First Date Ever

To have a good first date, you need to be comfortable.

Since this is your first date ever, you may be very nervous.

You may be worried about how things are going to go and whether you will leave a good impression.

You need to stop worrying about all of this. This will only make you nervous. Being nervous could lead to making mistakes on your first date and essentially messing it up.

You need to stop any thoughts of doubt from coming into your head.

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Just Landed A Date With My Dream Girl And I’m Terrified

If you have just landed a date with your dream girl and you are terrified, you have to temper your emotions and the way you look at her.

Though she may be your dream girl, she is still human. She is not perfect. There are elements about her that aren’t all that great.

We all have that as human beings. We all have elements that we are not that particularly proud of or that we feel that we can work on.

She is the same way.

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Should You Make Small Talk Before Asking A Girl Out On A Second Date?

You don’t have to make small talk before asking a girl out on a second date.

You can simply ask her out on a second date directly.

If you are feeling nervous or uncertain about asking her out on a second date, don’t be. Being nervous can be very detrimental.

You have already been on a first date with her.

She will be expecting that at some point you are going to ask her out on a second date.

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