Category Archives: First & Second Dates

Why Would A Guy Text Someone A Lot But Not Ask Them For A Second Date?

Why Would A Guy Text Someone A Lot But Not Ask Them For A Second Date?In one scenario, it is typically because the guy isn’t that interested in a second date.

When this guy is texting you a lot but not asking you for a second date, he is keeping you open as an option but isn’t willing to commit to that second date.

The first date may have been decent enough and relatively enjoyable.

However, he may not have gotten what he needed out of it. He may have enjoyed certain parts of the first date but not others.

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How Long After A First Date Before You Start Getting Worried About Them Not Calling?

How Long After A First Date Before You Start Getting Worried About Them Not Calling?Anywhere from 3 days or more after the first date is when you may start to get worried about them not calling.

However, there are some exceptions.

If your date had told you that they had something planned for the next few days, perhaps a trip somewhere with family or friends, then you don’t have to be worried about it, yet.

Your date may be genuinely unavailable for a number of days to a week.

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Is It A Bad Sign If A Guy Texts Less After A Date?

Is It A Bad Sign If A Guy Texts Less After A Date?It is sometimes a bad sign if a guy texts less after a date and other times it isn’t.

He may be showing you that he wasn’t too happy with how the date went. He may also be showing you that he is not quite sure of whether he should pursue this relationship any further.

If the texting has gotten to the point where he is no longer texting daily, this is a problem.

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Rescheduling Dates : How Many Times Before You Call It Quits?

Rescheduling Dates : How Many Times Before You Call It Quits?When a person keeps rescheduling dates, they are not interested in you.

To reschedule dates over and over again without complying is not a good sign. It typically insinuates that this other person has other things that they are more interested in doing than in spending quality time with you.

It means that they have no real respect for your time and hence have very little respect for you.

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Does He No Longer Want To Go On The Date?

Does He No Longer Want To Go On The Date?If he hasn’t called you to confirm the date, he may no longer want to go on the date.

If he hasn’t mentioned the date since the last time you two spoke, he may no longer want to go on the date.

If he seems more engaged with other activities and hasn’t even tried to contact you since mentioning the date, he may no longer want to go on the date.

If he never gave you a specific date, time and location for the date, he may no longer want to go on the date as he probably wasn’t even serious about it in the first place.

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How Much Should I Wait For The 2nd Date After A Great First Date? He Hasn’t Called/Texted In A Week. Is He Still Interested Or Should I Move On?

How Much Should I Wait For The 2nd Date After A Great First Date? He Hasn't Called/Texted In A Week. Is He Still Interested Or Should I Move On?If it has been a week since your first date and he hasn’t asked you out on a second, he may not be interested in you.

There is a chance that he has lost that interest he may have initially had or that it has greatly diminished.

His lack of real action should be your guide.

A guy who had just as much fun as you did on the first date would want to date you soon after. He would rarely wait this long.

There can always be extenuating circumstances.

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