Most men would rather date a woman who is physically fit just as most women would rather date a man who is physically fit.
As human beings, we are initially drawn to what we see before we actually start wondering about what kind of person the object of our attraction may be.
This is how we tend to approach attraction and dating.
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He may like you if he tends to look at you often and smile at you.
If he tends to follow this up with conversation as well and possibly flirting, this is even a stronger sign that he likes you.
On the other hand, he may be looking at you from time to time but not smiling.
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He typically sees you as a really good friend that he is comfortable being around.
One of the best ways to know this for certain is to observe him around his other male friends.
You should listen for what he tends to call them.
If you notice that he also tends to call his male friends “bro” or “fam,” there is a good chance that he is putting you in the friendship category.
You should also observe his body language around you.
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You just might.
Your refusal to settle for less needs to be brought into perspective. You need to ask yourself what exactly you believe to be less.
What you believe to be less may be something that can be worked on and adjusted.
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Your instincts are typically your true self trying to send you the message of what you must or must not do.
You shouldn’t ignore your instincts because they are typically trying to warn you based on experiences that may not be at the forefront of your thoughts but are now lodged in your subconscious.
Oftentimes, our instincts talk to us and try to warn us but we ignore them because our hearts are pushing us in the opposite direction.
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The best way to know if his words are sincere would be to observe his actions and his history.
If he has shown through his actions that he is serious about what he is saying, there is genuine cause to believe that he is being sincere.
Perhaps he is telling you about how much he cares about you.
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Though, undoubtedly, this scenario does come with risks.
Now, I understand that you have a genuine sense of fear and worry about the fact that he is a guy.
Your mind instantly goes to all kinds of scenarios.
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A cup of coffee is typically the best place to start.
It enables the both of you to be clear-headed enough to communicate and thereby avoid getting yourselves into a situation that may embarrass you or ruin the date.
Getting a drink can happen later, after you have both gotten better acquainted and you feel a level of comfort with each other.
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He may have always been a jerk but you never really allowed yourself to see it.
You may have been so caught up in his looks or in how he made you feel that you never allowed yourself to see the signs.
You never allowed yourself to acknowledge that moment that he was rude to his friend or that he swore at a driver who casually entered his lane while signalling.
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If he is rushing into a relationship, there may be a number of things that he is trying to avoid.
For one, he may be worried that you will lose interest quickly and move on to another guy. This means that he doesn’t have much confidence in himself and his ability to keep you interested.
If you were to get into a relationship with him, he would ultimately bore you or get you to the point where you feel like he gives you no reason to get excited about the relationship.
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