Considering that you are in a new relationship, you shouldn’t be bored of the sex this soon.

This is the honeymoon phase of a relationship, which means that sex should be constant, plentiful, and thrilling.

Assuming that you have tried different sex positions and sexual scenarios to spice up your brief sex life with her, and you are already bored, there is more to this than meets the eye.

The truth is, you were never all that interested in this woman.

Before you met her, you hadn’t had sex with a woman in a while.

Blinded by a desire to satisfy your sexual needs, you got into a relationship with her.

Yes, you were hoping to connect with her emotionally too, but the primary driver that got you into a relationship with her, had much to do with your libido.

Upon getting into a relationship with her and engaging in regular sex, you got to satisfy that libido.

This means that you are no longer as overwhelmed with the need to have sex.

You get to think with the head above your shoulders now, as opposed to the one below your waist.

Now, you have the clarity of mind to look at her and dissect what she is like, and how she makes you feel on a visceral and emotional level.

The qualities and characteristics you chose to overlook while you were courting her, have come to the forefront.

The problem isn’t the sex.

It’s how you look at this woman.

You aren’t as into her as you have made out to be, or should be.

Something about her is turning you off, whether it be her body, personality, lifestyle, or something else.

Unfortunately, given this mindset, doing a million sex positions or sexual scenarios with her to spice up the sex life won’t matter.

You have a mental block.

Being that sex is doubly mental and physical, it simply won’t give you that much gratification anymore, now that your initial desire for sex has been satiated.

Look back on the relationships you have had in the past.

How quickly did you get bored of the sex when you were into the woman.

It hasn’t happened.

If anything, you were insatiable with her.

You were looking forward to having sex with her each and every day, excited about what you would discover about her body.

The anticipation around getting her to climax was a prevalent thought in your mind.

Assuming that you aren’t a selfish lover, you were relishing a moment where she would tell you that you are the best she has ever had.

What guy doesn’t want to hear that?

Don’t be coy, you know you do too.

This early into a relationship, sex is robust and exploratory.

The fact that you are already bored means that there is a much deeper issue at play.

The sooner you grasp what it is, the sooner you resolve this.

It isn’t fair to keep stringing her along when deep down you know that you aren’t wholly into her.