A person of interest is someone you are hoping to get to know on a deeper basis, as you explore the potentiality of romance.
Should there be romantic chemistry, you want to have shared moments with them, engaging in different activities.
In due course, you are hoping to be sexually intimate.
Keeping this in mind, a person of interest with body odor (B.O.) is no small issue.
So many women make the mistake of not addressing this issue while they are in the early stages of courtship.
She worries that it would be too rude to bring it up.
Yet, every time she meets him on a date or hangs out with him at his or her place, she is doing everything in her power to keep herself from throwing up.
You cannot ignore body odor.
No matter how much you tell yourself that it isn’t a big issue, it is.
Again, you are going to be getting close to this person of interest.
You are eventually going to sleep with them.
It is so commonplace for a woman in this predicament to tell herself that it is going to get better.
Surely, he is aware that he stinks.
His family, friends and coworkers are bound to tell him about it so that he corrects it.
Don’t make assumptions.
Just as you find it awkward to address a touchy subject such as body odor, so do the other people in his life.
They are being too polite.
Too worried about hurting his feelings if they were to tell him that he has body odor.
Well, don’t compare yourself to his family, friends and coworkers.
In a scenario where you two become romantically exclusive, you are going to be around him a lot more than his family, friends and coworkers.
Those folks get to see him every now and then.
Once you are in an exclusive romantic relationship with him, you get to see him and be close to him almost every day, if not every day.
You are the one who is cursed to suffer from his body odor a whole lot more than anyone else in his life.
This means that you must address his body odor, sooner rather than later.
The last thing you want is to hold out on it for weeks and months, as your emotions for him grow deeper and his for you.
The fear of hurting his feelings is that much stronger when you develop stronger feelings for him over time.
Best to address his body odor now, before you two get too close emotionally.
Don’t worry, this isn’t anywhere near as awkward as you think.
Your position as his love interest puts you in an advantageous position.
Before you two have foreplay or sex, tell him that you want him to take a shower and use the shampoo you brought with you because the combination of a freshly bathed man and the smell of the shampoo really turns you on.
Do this every time you two are about to have foreplay or sex.
In these moments, he is too intent on having sex to even realize that you are indirectly telling him that he stinks.
All he is thinking about is running into that shower, applying the shampoo you brought with you, and jumping into bed with you afterward.
Once he gets into the habit of doing this, you won’t have to keep prompting him to take a shower with your favorite shampoo before foreplay or sex.
He does it on his own volition.
With time, he gets into a routine of showering, whether you are to see him that day or not.
Being that he has developed stronger feelings for you at this point, he wants to shower and apply your favorite shampoo because doing it reminds him of you.
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