We as human beings are selfish creatures.

We get rejected by someone or reach a period where we feel lonely, and suddenly, we are thinking back to people we have ghosted in the past.

So taken by our emotions, we are tempted to text a guy that we ghosted in the past.

It’s not like we have had an epiphany.

We haven’t done a whole lot of growing as a person since we ghosted the guy.

It’s just that we are feeling pretty bad about ourselves right now.

A guy you like recently rejected you or didn’t give you the relationship you wanted and you feel really bad.

You desperately need an ego boost.

Who is the first person you think about to give you that ego boost?

The person you ghosted a while back.

You hadn’t thought about this guy since then.

You were caught up in living your life and going after this other guy that you were into.

That didn’t work out and now you feel like you need to go back and get yourself an ego boost from the guy you already know has shown an interest in you in the past.

This is where we as human beings are incredibly selfish.

It doesn’t matter how your mind tries to explain it away.

You convince yourself that you had a genuine interest in the guy you ghosted and that the only reason why you ghosted him was because you were having a few personal issues that required your full attention.

The truth is, you weren’t into the guy.

But your mind convinces you that you were justified in ghosting him at the time.

This is how you make yourself believe that your desire to text this guy after having ghosted him isn’t coming from a selfish place.

But it is.

You want your ego boosted right now.

You crave the attention of someone that you already know likes you.

This is the reality you must come to terms with.

In a majority of cases, when a girl texts a guy she has ghosted in the past, it’s for selfish reasons and she ends up leading the guy on.

Is this what you want to do to this poor guy?

Have you thought about this guy in any way, shape or form since you ghosted him?

Have you felt even an inkling of regret for having ghosted him?

If you have experienced none of this, then the only reason why you are thinking about texting him is because of where you are at emotionally right now.

You feel low and are in desperate need of an ego boost.

It’s easier to get an ego boost from a guy you already know has demonstrated an interest in you in the past, than from a random guy.

What tends to happen is, once the girl has received her ego boost from texting the guy and receiving his attention, she ditches him.

This could happen after the first conversation or after several.

This leaves the guy completely despondent and depressed.

He thought that she had texted him out of interest, but she didn’t.

She used him as an ego boost and ditched him.

Is this who you want to be?

A narcissistic user?

As a human being with human decency, leave this guy be.