Yes, it is okay for you to go out with more than one guy at the same time, as long as you are single and you are not giving any one guy the impression of exclusivity.
When you make a guy believe that he is the only person that you are dating, you are being misleading.
In this case, never underestimate the value of honesty.
You don’t have to go into details about the assortment of guys you are going out with.
Simply make him aware that you aren’t exclusively dating him.
You have your reasons for wanting to date more than one guy at the same time.
You get bored easily, or you are working on figuring out who you like best and would want to end up in an exclusive relationship with.
Whatever your reasoning, be clear about it in your head so that you are more capable of being open and forthright with him.
Come to terms with your motives and what the end goal is.
Many people erroneously lose track of what they want in this situation.
In other words, you get so caught up in dating multiple guys, you forget about what the end goal is.
Even though you reach a stage where you are falling for one of these guys, you run a risk of ignoring this feeling, believing that you have to wait it out to be certain that he is the best option.
This is where you are making yourself believe that you can do better, or that you are not quite ready to fall for this guy and get into an exclusive relationship with him.
Unfortunately, this leads to you struggling to let go of the rest of the men you are going out with.
Instead of focusing your attention on the one you have developed these feelings for, you keep the rest of the men around, fearful of missing out.
With this mindset, you keep the rest of the men in your life, holding to the belief that you are maximizing your odds of connecting with the best potential romantic partner.
So you wait it out.
Unbeknownst to you, you have developed such comfort in having these many romantic suitors, you are weary of letting them go to focus on the one you have developed feelings for.
Unfortunately, the longer you wait, the greater the risk of losing the guy you have developed feelings for.
He is not going to stick around waiting for you to choose him forever.
Know what your end game is.
When you are connecting with a guy on a much deeper level than the rest of the guys you are dating, direct your efforts on him.
In not doing this, you remain stuck in a permanent state of dating, as no one is good enough for you.
This keeps you unhappy, as you inevitably lose out on good guys who refuse to stick around for you to make up your mind and prioritize him.
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