A lot of women like it when they know a guy is wanted and desired by another girl.
It makes the guy more of a catch.
If you have observed that more women seem to like you since you got a girlfriend, it is because you are now exuding a level of appeal that you weren’t when you were single.
When these women see you with your girlfriend, they begin to compare themselves to your girlfriend.
Women do this often.
They size each other up for beauty, fashion, attitude, friends, etc.
They want to know what exactly makes this girl so different from them that you have chosen to be with her instead of them.
What makes this girl so special?
Now that they are thinking in this way, they believe that you should be paying attention to them, having the notion that this girlfriend of yours isn’t any better than them.
The woman believes she is prettier or has better fashion sense than your girlfriend.
As far as she is concerned, she hangs around people that are way cooler than your girlfriend does and has a better background or carries herself a lot better than your girlfriend.
In short, she believes that she is better than your girlfriend in a number of ways if not all.
So, why are you with your girlfriend and not her?
She thinks this doesn’t make any sense at all.
As a result, she is nicer and kinder to you, showing you the attention women never gave you when you were single.
Now, you have become a challenge.
She has something to prove.
Women love a catch.
They love the idea of what it would be like to be with that said catch.
You are a catch, thanks to having a girlfriend that has taken you away from the single life.
If you are a catch to her, she clearly saw something that they didn’t see when you were single and they weren’t paying much attention to you.
This makes them curious.
Now that you have a girlfriend, women see you as more of a catch and thereby a challenge.
This makes them desire you more.
Women compare themselves to your girlfriend and essentially feel the need to compete with her, believing that they have better to offer than she does.
Women can be quite competitive when it comes to dealing with taken guys and comparing themselves to the girlfriends of these taken guys.
Furthermore, women believe that guys who already have girlfriends aren’t desperate.
Girls are typically turned off by desperate guys who are seeking girlfriends or intimacy.
When they know that a guy is already taken, they assume that he isn’t desperate and this makes him all the more attractive.
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