The good news is that it isn’t a turn off to girls if a guy they are talking to has had a lot of experience with girls.

This being said, this doesn’t give you a license to continuously flirt with a variety of girls.

Nor does it give you a license to talk to a bevy of said girls while in the process of courting her.

Doing this is what turns her off.

A girl isn’t turned off if the guy that she is talking to romantically has had a lot of experience with girls, as long as he isn’t disrespectful of her.

You are being disrespectful to her when you are sending constant texts to so many of these girls in her presence.

This isn’t okay to her.

It isn’t okay should she see that you are liking the pictures of these girls as they are sexily-clad on social media.

She feels disrespected when she is out and about with you in public, and you are looking flirtatiously at a variety of girls.

Furthermore, when you are spending more time hanging out with these girls, even as friends, she feels ignored and disrespected.

Whenever you are loose-lipped by constantly referencing any one these girls as she is having conversations with you and trying to get you to know her better, she is disrespected.

You see, what turns her off isn’t that you have had a history of dating a lot of girls.

What turns her off is when you use this as a license to be disrespectful to her by continuously giving these girls attention, as he is simultaneously courting you.

In doing this, she is offended by the perception that you aren’t taking her seriously.

Ergo, she is turned off.

I know what you are thinking.

All these girls that you have in your life are purely friends.

Thereby, she shouldn’t be turned off whenever you socialize with any of them.

This isn’t how she sees it.

As far as she is concerned, when you give these girls undue attention, as you are in the midst of courting her, you are trying to eat your cake and have it too.

When you are courting a girl that you are considering as a long-term relationship prospect, you jeopardize your chances with her if you keep giving undue attention to various women.

This is not what the girl wants to see from you.

Regardless of how harmless you believe these interactions are, this girl is going to read this behavior from you differently.

She looks at this behavior as disrespectful to her.

It gives her the impression that she is not all that important to you and that she is easily dispensable.

No girl that you are talking to on a serious romantic level wants to feel this way.

She wants to feel special.

Special enough to be the one that captures your heart and attention.

When you keep disrespecting her with these women, she struggles to see a future with you where she doesn’t have to share you with these women.

No girl wants this.

For her to consider you as someone with the romantic potential to be an exclusive partner, she has to believe that she is enough for you.

In all the world, you see her as your one and only.

This is what she wants.