Unfortunately, as of now, you are placing way too much of an emphasis on whether she loves you or not.

This is particularly critical when your relationship with her is relatively new or is only a few months old.

Apply the majority of your focus on building a strong bond and connection with her.

As you connect with her and meet her emotional needs, she is likely to fall in love with you, if she hasn’t already.

The key is to be consistent with your actions.

Some people in relationships make the mistake of not being consistent in their actions.

They communicate sporadically, forget to give compliments, stop going on dates, and stop being as affectionate.

In essence, they become complacent, thinking that the fact that they are already in a relationship is enough.

This is the wrong attitude to have, and it leads to relationships never meeting their full potential.

Never get complacent in your behavior and in how you treat this relationship.

The moment she realizes that she is nothing but someone in your life that you have taken for granted, is the moment that she stops feeling special to you.

This leads to a lack of emotional fulfillment in the relationship on her part.

Once she is experiencing less emotional fulfillment in this relationship, she is a lot less likely to fall in love with you.

This is why it is so important that you are consistent with your actions and never take her for granted.

Communicate and show affection on a regular basis.

Compliment her, and take her out on dates on a regular basis.

None of these responsibilities go away by reason of you already being in a relationship with her.

If anything, this is when you have to put in a greater amount of effort in sustaining this proactive behavior.

Maintaining a relationship is more challenging than courting.

Getting her to love you requires that you give her a sense of security in the relationship.

She only gets a sense of security in the relationship when she has seen a consistency in your behavior.

She has seen you consistently communicate with her, while showing affection and emotional support.

It is when she has seen this from you on a regular and consistent basis that she lets her guard down, and subsequently falls in love with you.

Her sense of security is what gets her to fall in love with you over time.

As long as you are consistent in your behavior, you won’t have to worry about whether she loves you or not.

She is bound to.

Your hard work and consistency gets rewarded.

This occurs on a day you aren’t expecting it.

She announces that she loves you out of nowhere with a giant smile on her face.