Would A Woman Be Interested In A Guy Who Wants To Wait Until Marriage?

Would A Woman Be Interested In A Guy Who Wants To Wait Until Marriage?

The bulk of women aren’t interested in a guy who wants to wait until marriage.

It’s admirable and lots of them will tell you that.

After all, it takes a great deal of self-discipline to save yourself until marriage.

But admiration is not enough to make these women wait.

Statistically, women go on about three dates with a guy before engaging in sex with him.

Although the bulk of women engage in sex before marriage, there is a small percentage that doesn’t.

These are primarily conservative women.

You can find conservative women in conservative environments such as church, missions, country music concerts, volunteer organizations, charity events, bookstores, public libraries, politically conservative clubs, etc.

Although the majority of conservative women engage in sex within one to ten dates with a guy, there is an even smaller percentage of them who don’t.

Or, at least, don’t intend to.

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These are conservative women who are intent on waiting until marriage too, but once she is in a relationship and time passes, she reneges on this intent.

She has been involved with the guy for a while, doing everything else sexually but having sex with him.

This is like playing with fire.

As time passes, the temptation is that much stronger for her to want to have sex with him, even though she had initially agreed to wait until marriage.

She wants you to have sex with her and gives you a number of excuses.

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She tells you that having sex before marriage doesn’t matter now, given that you are devoted to each other and will get married one day anyway.

She implores you to put it in for a second.

A second isn’t a big deal.

It’s just a second.

Once you put it in for one second, she asks for another second, and soon you are at it for minutes to hours.

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Or, she uses guilt.

She tells you that you have both done everything else sexually anyway, and you might as well have sex with her.

This is how you fall into a trap of meeting a woman who believes that she is interested in a man who is waiting until marriage, but falls off that mindset as you date each other over time.

As though the pool of eligible women wasn’t small enough, it is made that much smaller by this.

To increase the odds that you aren’t dating a conservative woman who is going to renege on waiting until marriage, date a woman who has had a history of ending relationships with boyfriends who have tried to get her to have sex before marriage.

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A woman who has turned down and broken up with boyfriends in her past who have tried to get her to have sex with them before marriage has shown that she has the discipline to stick with her intent.

Additionally, not engaging in any other forms of sexual activity with each other, besides kissing and hugging, keeps the temptation to have actual sex further at bay, which increases the odds you both see it through until marriage.

Waiting until marriage isn’t an easy feat for two people, but it isn’t impossible.

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