That person already has an idea of what it looks like when two people in a room are excited over each other and have a vibe.

Let’s say that the person who made this observation was a female friend of yours.

She has probably had that experience in the past.

She remembers how she felt and what her body language was like in moments where she was around the person she was interested in.

How the person of interest responded to her body language remains vivid in her mind.

When your friend sees you and someone else showcasing similar body language cues, she draws the conclusion that there was excitement and a vibe between you two while in the room.

This conclusion comes from her life experience.

Although humans beings exhibit similar body language cues in how we behave when we are attracted to someone, be sure your friend isn’t telling you what she thinks you want to hear.

It’s not that she would do this on purpose.

She genuinely thinks she saw excitement and a vibe between you two in the room.

That being said, being that she has known for a while that you are attracted to this guy, it’s tempting for her to exaggerate what she saw so as to make you feel good.

Her heart is in the right place, but it doesn’t mean that what she thinks she saw was irrefutable evidence that there was excitement and a vibe between you and this guy while you were both in the room.

A guy who exhibits the same behavior with other people he is socializing with in a room isn’t showing that he has any specific attraction for you.

He was just as talkative or engaging with the other people in the room.

In this case, you weren’t someone he was singling out with how excitable he was.

Did your friend observe his behavior with others besides yourself?

Was he as enthusiastic in his conversations or exchanges with them as he was with you?

Keeping this in mind, exercise caution in how you interpret what your friend told you.

To judge whether his excitement and the vibe was caused by romantic interest, it’s better to ascertain whether you were the only one he was exhibiting this behavior with.

An affirmative means that there is validity in what your friend told you.

A negative means that he saw you in the same way he saw everyone else, and there was nothing special in your exchange with him.

The next time you two are in a room, have your friend or a friend observe what he does with everyone else he socializes with.

Should his energy when socializing with them be low in comparison to his energy when socializing with you, there is a valid reason to believe that he has an attraction for you.

Have the patience to do this first.

The last thing you want to do is become overly excited about what your friend told you, believing that this must mean he likes you.

It gives you hope that isn’t yet warranted.

A hope that could lead to heartbreak upon learning that you weren’t anything special.