The idea of walking up to this beautiful girl on campus is intimidating to you.
With her three friends in tow, you are worried about how you would come off.
The last thing you want is to be self-conscious around her three friends, as you attempt to have a conversation with her.
Believe it or not, there are a throng of guys who possess the same fears you do in situations like this.
The reality that she is beautiful is already intimidating enough.
To have to contend with three of her friends upon approaching her, only adds to the intimidation.
Unfortunately, this is how you make yourself your own worst enemy.
Your thoughts are betraying you, creating scenarios in your mind that don’t exist.
Whenever you see this beautiful girl walking on campus with her three friends, you spend far too much time thinking about how bad everything is going to go if you approach her.
By the time she walks out of sight with her three friends, you have talked yourself out of approaching her.
Never get caught up in fantastical stories that you are creating in your mind.
Insecurities within us frequently make us assume the worst.
You assume the worst of how the beautiful girl and her three friends would react to you approaching them.
There is an assumption made that her three friends won’t be polite, and that she matches their energy by being impolite towards you too.
The truth is, you have no idea how her three friends and her are going to react to your approach.
Yes, it’s reasonable to assume they won’t be friendly.
But, conversely, it is reasonable to assume that they are going to be friendly.
You won’t know unless you make an approach.
Don’t be one of those guys who keeps wondering about what it would have been like to approach a beautiful girl that they never did, and living to regret it.
Rather, approach this beautiful girl, regardless of the three friends she walks with.
If you continue feeling intimidated about this, use your own college friends as your wingmen.
Bringing along a few friends as you approach this beautiful girl and her three friends provides cover.
Once you have made your approach, your friends get to engage with her three friends while you focus on talking to the girl you like, the beautiful one.
By doing this, you don’t have to worry about the prospect of having to conduct a conversation with the beautiful alongside her three friends.
You are primarily engaged in conversation with the beautiful girl, as her three friends are preoccupied with talking to your friends.
As you talk to the beautiful girl, be polite and respectful.
Open with a topic that is relatable, so that conversation isn’t awkward.
Being that you are students in college, coming up with a college-related topic to start off with is effortless.
Be conscious of her time.
Don’t keep her for long.
Throw in a few jokes to make her laugh for good measure, and close the conversation with asking for her contact information.
That’s it.
Within 5 to 10 minutes you have approached this beautiful girl on campus, established a connection, and gotten her contact information.