A guy’s concern, beyond a girl’s physical looks, is her behavior.

A girl that was spoiled by her doting parents isn’t an automatic red flag.

He doesn’t care all that much that she was spoiled.

What he cares about is how she treats him and others.

A worst example of a spoiled girl is the one that is so used to having her way that she has no consideration of others and lacks common decency.

When he takes her out on a date, he wants to be appreciated.

A girl that complains about the elegance of where he has taken her to and how much he spent on her is a complete turnoff.

In this instance, he isn’t liking this spoiled girl all that much.

She is coming off as an ungrateful brat and this has him seething within.

Although he doesn’t show this on the outside, he is feeling it within.

Since she is attractive, he is tempted to give her another chance, hoping that her ingratitude doesn’t happen again.

When he takes her out on a different date, and as an encore, she is acting like a diva, complaining about everything from the setup of the restaurant to the look of the menu, he has had enough.

She is the worst kind of spoiled.

The one who has no consideration of anyone else, and solely concerned with her own self-aggrandizement.

He has lost any hope that her diva-like behavior on the first date was merely an aberration.

This is who she is.

A spoiled woman who was raised by doting parents, and he doesn’t want any further part of courting her.

In this case, he wasn’t turned off by the knowledge that she was spoiled by her doting parents.

He was turned off by her uppity, self-centered and ungrateful behavior.

If you are a girl who was spoiled by your doting parents, a guy isn’t instantly overlooking you as a romantic prospect.

A guy is primarily concerned with a woman’s beauty before anything else.

As long as you are pretty, you have his attention.

It is what happens as he courts you that you have to pay attention to.

Should you be the quintessential definition of a spoiled person, it won’t take long before he realizes that you are, and be turned off by it.

To this vain, ask yourself about your character.

Do you look down on people?

Are you eternally ungrateful?

Should this be you, you are going to struggle to get a good guy.

There are players out there who won’t mind dealing with this behavior, given that they don’t see a future with the girl anyway, and are prioritizing getting laid.

But the guys that will respect and treat you right are the ones you lose out on.

If these are the guys you want, take some time to readjust your behavior.

This won’t happen overnight, given that you have been spoiled since childhood.

Rather, do some exercises to rid yourself of this facet of your personality.

Exercises such as volunteering your time at a nonprofit organization to aid the disadvantaged, or becoming an active part of a movement that caters to the underprivileged.

Making this a staple in your life lets you see the world from the eyes of those who didn’t have the privileged upbringing that you did, giving you an insight into their world.

As you get to know them over the coming weeks and months, you get to connect with their humanity.

This gradually makes you someone with empathy.

This is what breaks you out of a self-centered diva-like mentality, increasing your overall appeal to guys, including the good ones.