No matter how much a woman loves her single life, a biological imperative surges to the surface of her consciousness in time.
That of having children.
This means that she wants to get married.
A marriage is a serious relationship.
Once a woman is in her late twenties and beyond, she is no longer looking to date for fun.
She is dating for marriage.
Women get married between the ages of 28-29 years of age.
This means that women do look for serious relationships, regardless of how many dating options they have.
It does get tiring after a while to be solely dating for fun.
Yes, it was fun to go on a spontaneous date at a moment’s notice when she was in her late teens and early twenties.
It was fun to not have to worry about seeing a guy again after a one-night stand where there was electric sexual chemistry, but no sustainable intellectual chemistry.
It was fun to fly with a hot guy to a foreign country for the weekend, entirely based on the fact that they loved traveling and its romantic intricacies, without expecting to ever see each other again upon returning to their home country.
She met several of these men while she was in her late teens and early twenties.
Amongst her many dating options are men she meets at work, church, the gym, through family and friends, on dating apps and social media.
These are endless dating options.
That being said, it does get old to hop from person to person.
Yes, that impromptu trip to a foreign country was fun, but as a woman in her late twenties and beyond, she would much rather go on a planned trip with a lifelong partner.
Thereby, it isn’t surprising that as a woman in her late twenties and beyond, she is looking for a serious relationship.
Not only does she want the stability and consistency that accompanies a serious relationship with a man, she knows that she doesn’t have all the time in the world to have children.
She wants a stable home for her future children.
Finding a man who is a good provider, secures the well-being of her future children.
This is far more important to her now than a one-night stand or a spontaneous date at a spa.
The biological clock is ticking and she wants to get a move on.
At this stage, she is cutting out men who aren’t looking for serious relationships with extreme prejudice.
Where she would have been all over these playboys when she was in her late teens and early twenties, she has no interest in them now.
She wants a much safer bet.
A man who is ready for a serious relationship and has the financial means to provide for her future children.
As long as you are looking to date women in their late twenties and beyond, you won’t have any trouble finding women who are looking for serious relationships.
On the other side of the coin, if you have been looking for younger women and striking out with finding one that is looking for a serious relationship, you have been looking in the wrong places.
Stop patronizing nightclubs, bars, and pool parties.
Younger women that are looking for serious relationships are usually found in low key settings such as church, bookstores, book clubs, libraries, nonprofit and charitable organizations, volunteer events, coffee shops, museums, art events, recreational sports, the dog park, decor stores, and community classes.