You have to understand that your job is not to make him feel loved.
That is a very dangerous task.
If he has emotional or psychological issues, no amount of effort on your part is going to help him.
This is a problem that is innately within him.
You should be sure that whatever you did to lose your boyfriend’s trust, warranted the reaction your boyfriend gave you.
Sometimes, we can get so involved in trying to please our significant other that we take whatever they tell us to heart and believe that we were in the wrong when in fact we weren’t in the wrong.
Hence, it is very important that you examine whatever it was that led to your boyfriend no longer trusting you and ask yourself if indeed this occurrence was your fault. Do this conscientiously and be real about it.
Walking away from the guy you love can be done when you allow yourself to truly let go of him.
The most difficult aspect of this for people is the “letting go” part.
You have absolutely got to be willing to let go and that all begins in your mind.
You will need to train your mind to let go of him.
There is no path to success without this. If you are not willing to do this, you may encounter a lot of frustration.
Being a rebound can be a very painful thing to deal with.
This is especially true if you had real feelings for the person that did this to you.
In order to get over it, you should first and foremost acknowledge your value to yourself and to people at large.
You really need to focus on this and put out real effort. You should look at all that makes you uniquely you and be thankful for it.
Yes, you should be thankful for you and for being you.
It is not unusual to find yourself in a relationship with someone who has a fear of intimacy. You may think that this is something unusual or that for whatever reason, you are to blame for this.
The truth is, there are lots of people who get into relationships with people who have a fear of intimacy.
Reconciling with your ex-girlfriend can be tricky.
Before you decide to either do it or not, you should determine how you feel emotionally.
You should also try to really determine and be cognizant of what you may hope to get out of this.
It is not unusual to lose the butterflies for someone once you notice that the person is returning your advances.
In this scenario, they are seemingly interested and now may want to pursue something with you.
As a result, you begin to feel less inclined.
It can be difficult to remain level-headed after an argument.
We tend to get emotional and irrational when we get into heated arguments.
The more intense the argument was, the more likely he will need time and space to recover from it.
The length of time you should know someone before getting into a romantic relationship with them is really dependent on the nature of the relationship and how the both of you have been interacting.
You shouldn’t contemplate this with a timetable in mind as this can be so detrimental to the ultimate goal of what you may want for the relationship.
Your intent should simply be to allow the process of getting to know each other unfold in a natural way.
Your focus should not be on how to stop loving or caring for this person. That manner of thinking will only make you feel worse and deepen the feelings that you are actually trying to get rid of.
The truth is, we cannot just stop loving or caring for someone instantaneously. We are not robots. This isn’t how we are built.