Why Is Being Quiet As A Man Such A Turn Off For Women?

Why Is Being Quiet As A Man Such A Turn Off For Women?Quiet men have a propensity to exhibit characteristics that make them seem meek to women.

This is when he speaks little or doesn’t speak up.

He is not aggressive in going after what he wants.

Rather, he waits for the woman to make a move on him.

Worse, he waits for her to show him an exorbitant amount of interest signals before he considers making a move on her.

Whenever she is in his presence, he has a hard time opening a conversation and keeping it going.

She finds herself having to be the one to keep a conversation going.

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When he talks to her, he plays it too safe, agreeing to everything she is saying without challenging her in areas that he doesn’t agree with.

Women see quiet men who come with these characteristics as lacking masculinity.

She sees him as someone she easily walks all over and calls the shots with.

This is a turn off to her.

She doesn’t want to date a man that gives her the impression that he is far too agreeable with everything she says and does.

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She worries that he won’t set boundaries and goes with anything she says and does.

On the contrary, a man that exhibits the opposite in his characteristics is what turns her on.

These are men that are aggressive in going after the girl they like.

He has no qualms with disagreeing with several of her opinions, which means that he isn’t concerned about getting on her good side.

He says what he believes, irrespective of whether she agrees with it or not.

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Opening a conversation and keeping it going is effortless to him.

It’s a relief that she doesn’t have to do all the work in keeping a conversation going by having to introduce a disproportionate share of topics into it.

Furthermore, a man like this doesn’t hide that he is attracted to her.

Rather than spending far too much time waiting to see how many signals of interest she sends at him, he is already making romantic moves on her.

He compliments her, and flirts, with teasing thrown in.

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He gets into her personal space without fear, touching her from time to time, and sustaining eye contact.

These are characteristics that are completely the opposite of what she experiences from quiet men.

Women love men who are unabashedly masculine in how they behave.

Such behavior is a sign that he is confident and social, which are two characteristics that women adore in men.

Here is the thing.

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A quiet man can still be confident and social.

You don’t have to be the loudest man in the room to demonstrate that you are confident and social.

Becoming more self-assured in who you are as a person is how you build your confidence.

To do this, be unabashed in the activities that you love to do as pastimes, and share these moments with people who have similar passions.

Not only does this improve your confidence, it improves your social skills.

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Being around people who have similar interests in pastimes, makes it easier for you to talk to and socialize with said people.

Once you have done this for a while, you won’t have any hardships in talking to women in general with confidence and fluidity.

All the while, you remain a quiet man, but one with confidence and social skills.

With these characteristics, you turn women on, not off.

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