You aren’t giving girls the attention you once were.

There has been an adjustment in your attitude towards them into one of nonchalance.

In recent months, you have built a new identity for yourself, and you are no longer looking to girls to make you feel better about yourself.

Thanks to the new hobbies and interests that you have aggressively pursued in the last few months, you have built a new life for yourself.

As you have been consumed with bettering yourself and growing as a person, you have been rarely looking at girls as you once did.

Girls are remarkably intuitive.

They sense it when a guy isn’t giving them the eye.

They are so used to guys giving them the eye and desiring them.

It makes these guys seem as though they don’t have lives of their own.

Despite liking this attention, they never intend to give these desperate guys the time of day as far as dating.

Once upon a time, you were one of those guys.

You were incessantly looking to girls to get their acknowledgment, obsessed with the idea of going out on dates with them.

The desire within you to get a girlfriend was so intense.

This energy was so obvious, it wreaked of desperation, making you unappealing to these girls.

Remember, they are used to guys ogling them wherever they go.

Whether she is walking on the street, is in an elevator, at a shopping mall, at a nightclub, it doesn’t matter.

The attention she gets from men is overwhelming.

With this much attention, it immediately captivates her when a guy isn’t giving her the eye.

Since you stopped looking at girls, they started looking at you.

You set yourself apart from the mass of men.

She is far too used to guys undressing her with their eyes as she walks by them in a public park, subway compartment, and grocery store aisle.

You aren’t doing that.

For the last few months, you have become so absorbed in what you are making happen in your life, you don’t look at girls anymore.

Girls don’t have the power they once had over you.

A power that once overwhelmed you.

A power that was so intense that you were ready to say whatever you had to, all with an intent to impress her and get a date.

Not anymore.

Your life has been so rich and full with you taking charge of your destiny and what you want to achieve in life, that you no longer see girls as all that important anymore.

A guy with this mindset is enthralling.

The girls see that you aren’t undressing them with your eyes as they walk by.

Instead, you are engrossed in a book you are reading, making your way to a health store to get your protein shake for the workout you have planned at the gym, on a phone call with a new friend you have made who is on the same journey of self-discovery as you are, etc.

Your mind is far too concerned with making your life as successful and fulfilling as you can.

At this stage in your life, you don’t give a care about girls because your life is busy and full.

That is why girls like you now.

You have taken away their primary source of validation, attention.

Without that, you have set yourself apart from nearly all guys, and she wants more than anything to get your attention and become a part of your exciting lifestyle.