Since you are hesitant to date a single parent, given that you are undecided on children, there is a sense of hopelessness.

At your age, the majority of women in the dating field are single moms.

You are undecided on whether you want to have children, and the idea of taking care of the children of a single mom is intimidating.

The first step to get out of the hopelessness you have been going through in the dating field is to decide on whether you want children.

You are now old enough to make this decision.

Procrastinating on this any longer is to your detriment in the dating field.

Despite the fact that you have mostly been meeting single moms in the dating field, there are single women in the dating field who don’t have children.

Yes, they exist, and I will tell you how to find them in a little bit.

Single women who don’t have children want to know where you stand on this.

At your age, they believe you should know.

A single woman who doesn’t have children but knows she wants to have children will hesitate to date you.

She fears that there are no guarantees that you finally decide to have children.

She envisions a scenario where she has been dating you for a significant amount of time, only to be told that you have decided that you don’t want children.

Such a waste of her time, emotions, and effort.

She wants to know whether you want to have children or not, so that she never puts herself at this disadvantage.

A single woman who doesn’t have children, and doesn’t want children, is just as worried about dating you as the single woman who doesn’t have children and wants them.

She fears that after spending a significant amount of time dating you, there is a risk that you end up deciding that you do want to have children.

This puts her at odds with you, and she would have wasted her time, emotions, and energy on dating you.

Do you now see why it is absolutely critical that you decide on whether you want to have children before getting into the dating field?

A woman, whether she has children or not, won’t want to date a man for a sustained length of time who doesn’t know where he stands on whether he wants to have children or not.

The only women that would be open to dating you would be those who are looking for short-term hookups.

But you aren’t looking for short-term hookups.

You are looking for a serious relationship.

If you decide that you do want children, ask yourself whether you are open to dating single moms.

Most of the women in your age range in the dating field are single moms.

In the event you are open to dating a single mom, confirm that she has a healthy relationship with the father of her children.

An unhealthy relationship with the father of her children is certain to complicate your relationship with her, with him as a constant source of pain and frustration.

Should you decide that you do want children, but don’t want to date a single mom, it’s time to find single women who don’t have children.

This means that how you have gone about meeting single women has to change.

Single women who don’t have children are on a different time schedule to that of single women who have children living with them.

Single women with children that live with them are far less likely to be at a gym, grocery store, adult class, bookstore, bar, coffee shop, dog park, or a volunteer event, into the night.

A single mom with children is at home taking care of her kids at these night hours.

Make a change to your daily schedule.

Go to the aforementioned locations later on at night.

This exposes you to more single women who don’t have children.

Some of whom have the potential to be a future partner.