He takes over your entire life by filling a void within you.

Unfortunately, you don’t value yourself or your life all that much.

You are bored with yourself and your life.

You want someone to come into it so that there is a spark of life.

When any man who is a bit interesting is suddenly a candidate for dating, you are showing that you are desperate to be awakened from the monotony of your life.

It isn’t healthy to let a man of any value, whether high or low, to take over your life the moment you deem him a bit interesting.

This opens you up to being taken advantage of by these men.

It won’t take long for him to realize that you are desperate to have him in your life.

You are supremely giddy whenever he contacts you and far too hungry for him to hang out with you.

He knows that he hasn’t done much to get you to be this emotionally invested in him, being that he hasn’t put in the work.

This makes him susceptible to wanting to take advantage of you.

This is where he is making you do him favors or taking advantage of your kindness.

As long as you keep letting a guy you are romantically interested in take over your entire life, you are going to go through constant emotional drawbacks.

These guys are going to come into your life, take advantage of the situation, and dump you once they have had their fill.

Going through this time and time again is bound to negatively affect your self-esteem and how you value yourself.

Unfortunately, this causes you to get into even more of these relationships in a desperate attempt to land a guy who doesn’t treat you so badly.

All the while, your self-esteem and sense of value continues to get pulverized as each new relationship is worse than its predecessor.

Is this the path you want to put yourself on?

For now, avoid getting into any romantic relationship with any man.

Focus instead on working on your own life and your sense of value.

Start doing activities that you are passionate about.

Expand your knowledge about topics of interest by reading up on said topics.

Be active in your life.

Acquire knowledge.

Build stronger relationships with your friends.

Basically, it’s time to work on yourself.

You have never given yourself an opportunity to discover who you are, what you love, and what you want out of life.

It’s alright to stumble or make mistakes while you are in this process of self-discovery.

If anything, in making mistakes, you learn that much more about yourself.

It is in making mistakes that you build an endurance in the face of adversity.

What is paramount right now is that you work on yourself and build your life up.

As you do this, you are bound to attract the right people into your life.

These are people who facilitate in giving you further insight about life and the world.

Some of them have already been on a journey of self-discovery in their own lives, which means that they are capable of giving you valuable advice on how to better yourself.

Only when you have been through this journey and grown as a person should you consider dating again.