Are Friends With Benefits Relationships Only For The Under 30’s?

Are Friends With Benefits Relationships Only For The Under 30's?In reality, friends with benefits relationships can fit all ages.

The under 30’s have a somewhat different outlook to friends with benefits relationships than the over 30’s.

Under 30’s are in these relationships for sexual discovery and experimentation.

Being young, they are getting in tune with their sexuality, as far as how they regard their bodies and what they like in the bedroom.

They are honing their skills in how to go about receiving and giving sexual pleasure.

A friends with benefits relationship is an opportunity to improve their prowess in these areas, without any strings attached.

Without the responsibility of a committed relationship, he never has to worry about having to satiate the emotional needs of a partner.

He is free to get his physical needs met without a conscience.

Under 30’s are still in their sexual peak.

This is where they continue to explore their bodies, sexuality and proclivities in the bedroom.

A friends with benefits relationship for those over 30 is somewhat different.

Although there are similarities in terms of the desire to get sexual pleasure without the responsibility that comes with being in a committed relationship, there is another motive.

Over 30’s have already gone through their sexual peak when they were under 30.

This is where they went through puberty and spent the ensuing years discovering their bodies, sexuality and proclivities in the bedroom.

This journey has already been done.

At over 30 he has been in long-term relationships and marriages.

These committed relationships didn’t work out and he has suddenly found himself in a friends with benefits relationship.

In such a relationship, he is looking to rediscover himself.

Somewhere along the line, while he was in a long-term relationship, he lost sight of his sexuality and struggled with his libido.

It’s likely that these long-term relationships eventually became sexless.

Now that he is divorced, or out of the long-term relationship, he is desperate to rediscover his sexuality and whether he still has a libido.

As a result, he gets into a friends with benefits relationship.

Whoever he has this friends with benefits relationship with is also over 30, and has been through her own traumas in her previous long-term relationships and marriages.

These are two people who desperately want to rediscover their bodies, sexuality and proclivities in the bedroom.

At the core, there is a powerful desire to experience that sexual pleasure they were robbed of in their last relationships.

Under 30’s have a desire for freedom and exploration when they get involved in friends with benefits relationships.

Given this lighthearted approach to friends with benefits relationships, the under 30’s don’t spend too much time with one partner before moving on to the next one.

They are quick to boredom, which is why they bounce from one friend with benefits to another.

Over 30’s on the other hand aren’t as quick to move on to a new friend with benefits.

Being that a majority of people over 30 are married or in long-term relationships, he doesn’t have as many candidates for a friends with benefits relationship as someone under 30.

As a consequence, he is grateful to find someone who is game for a friends with benefits relationships.

Over 30’s in friends with benefits relationships have a desperate desire to rediscover their sexuality and reenergize their libidos, and don’t have the luxury to be picky in who they go on this journey with.