How Hard Is Dating For An Introverted Man Who Wants To Find A Girlfriend?

How Hard Is Dating For An Introverted Man Who Wants To Find A Girlfriend?As long as you aren’t cooped up in your home, playing video games all day, with no exposure to women, it isn’t hard to date as an introverted man.

Being an introvert in no way means that you love spending time alone all the time.

Yes, you love spending time alone, but you aren’t adverse to socializing with people.

Unlike an extroverted man that prefers socializing with large groups of people, your preference is to socialize with smaller groups of people.

This is absolutely fine, and doesn’t put you at a disadvantage in dating.

Introverts aren’t all that comfortable in large groups of people, such as those at bars, nightclubs, and parties.

That’s alright.

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There are people who occupy other spaces in smaller groups.

Think about your hobbies and interests.

There are people who enjoy the same hobbies and interests.

These are people who love watching movies, writing, playing musical instruments, gardening, reading, journaling, scrapbooking, photography, hiking, collecting, learning languages, nature walking, pottery, crocheting, playing chess, astronomy, meditation, painting, knitting, podcasting, birdwatching, yoga, and so on.

Do any of these hobbies and interests connect with you as an introvert?

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There are people who have the same hobbies and interests that you do.

These people meet in small groups to participate in these activities.

By attending these activities, you expose yourself to these people.

Several of them are women.

These are women that are so much easier to connect with, given that you have the same hobbies and interests.

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These hobbies and interests give you a starting point for conversation.

Unlike meeting women at bars, nightclubs, and parties, you don’t have to deal with approach anxiety.

The women you meet while participating in your hobbies and interests are far more welcoming to your approach, as you are in a physical setting that they feel safe and comfortable in.

As opposed to girls at bars, nightclubs, and parties, who have their guard up, protecting themselves from inebriated men who all want to sleep with them, the girls you meet in these hobby and interest groups have their guard down.

An introvert works better with smaller groups of people.

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Consistently putting yourself in physical settings where you get to socialize with people who have the same interests and hobbies as yourself, gives you a much better shot at eventually finding a girlfriend in these circles.

If you are an introvert who plays video games all day and never leaves the house, it’s harder to date and find a girlfriend.

In this case, you aren’t exposing yourself to women.

If women don’t see you, they can’t date you.

It isn’t physically possible.

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That being said, thanks to technology, there is the internet.

These are dating apps, gaming communities, and digital classrooms.

Go into these spaces and introduce yourself to people there.

There are less women in these online spaces, but they do exist.

As long as you are fun and engaging, some of them will take a liking to you.

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This gives you an opportunity to find a girlfriend in one of these girls.

The reality is, you won’t date or find a girlfriend unless you have some form of exposure and interaction with women.

Whether that exposure and interaction is in person or online, be proactive in putting yourself in these spaces.

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