There are still loyal girls out there.
You have struggled in meeting them because you aren’t putting yourself in the right places.
When you keep meeting girls at nightclubs and bars, you are continually exposing yourself to girls who are all about partying.
These are women who are all about partying at this stage in their lives.
Numerous guys meet girls in these social venues and lose themselves in a fantasy.
A fantasy where these girls get into loyal and committed relationships with them.
He conveniently forgets where he met her.
In believing that he is so special, he misleads himself into thinking that she is so enamored by him that she stops partying.
This is an ingenious mindset that leads to colossal disappointment.
You aren’t that special.
When you keep meeting girls in these party venues, you are assured to get the same results.
It doesn’t matter how well you hit it off with a girl.
Once the dopamine high of meeting you has diminished in a few weeks, she is right back to the nightclubs and bars.
She is in a phase in her life where she wants to party and no guy is derailing her from that.
When you habitually meet girls in these party venues, you are destined to struggle to find a loyal girl.
The responsibility lies with you for repeatedly choosing to go to venues where you won’t find loyal girls.
Besides nightclubs and bars, there are other venues that aren’t conducive to meeting a loyal girl.
Venues such as vacation spots, concerts, and pool parties are notorious for not being ideal areas to find loyal girls.
As a rule of thumb, avoid areas where there is a prominent party atmosphere, alcohol, or drugs available.
Girls at these venues aren’t looking for committed relationships at this stage in their lives.
At this stage in your life, you are looking for someone loyal for a committed relationship.
Nevertheless, you are looking for her in the wrong places.
The best places to find loyal girls are in venues where there isn’t alcohol prevalent or a party atmosphere.
Nonprofits and charitable organizations where people volunteer their time to aid the needy are good venues to find loyal girls.
A woman that is taking time out of her busy life to feed the hungry, rescue animals, mentor poor kids, is a loyal woman that is a great candidate for a committed relationship.
She is demonstrating that she thinks about the well-being of others, rather than her own selfish pleasures.
At this stage in her life, she wants to be of value to her community.
This means she has settled down and is thinking long term.
A woman that is thinking long term is ready to be loyal to the right guy for her.
Besides nonprofits and charitable organizations, find loyal girls who are ready for committed relationships at church, religious conventions, bookstores, libraries, and rural areas.
Girls at church and religious conventions are traditional.
The doctrines of religion are steeped in old tradition.
Meaning, these are girls that are much less likely to party or sleep around, which makes them far more likely to be loyal and great candidates for committed relationships.
Women who primarily live in rural areas are traditional too.
Away from the hustle and bustle of the big city, they live a quieter and less chaotic lifestyle.
Additionally, with a much less population than a city has, she isn’t surrounded by temptation and has spent her adult life primarily dating men that she has had long-term relationships with.
Girls at bookstores and libraries aren’t the partying type.
Far from it.
They are in these venues to acquire knowledge, which means that they value intellectual stimulation over that of stimulants and intoxicants.
Being that she doesn’t put herself in chaotic party environments, she is more likely to have had a history of long-term relationships, which means she is loyal.