Is Dating Even Worth It In This Day And Age Where People In Relationships Are Constantly Cheating?

Is Dating Even Worth It In This Day And Age Where People In Relationships Are Constantly Cheating?With all the cheating that goes on in relationships in this day and age, the thought of dating doesn’t seem worth it to you.

This makes sense.

You are constantly around people in relationships who are cheating on each other.

This goes for your friends, coworkers, and family members.

All of this has left you feeling hopeless, wondering whether dating is even worth it.

The last thing you want is to get into a relationship with someone who cheats on you.

To put all that time and effort into someone, fall for them emotionally, and be betrayed by them, is such a scary thought to you.

I get it.

You do have a point.

That being said, none of this should stop you from dating.

The truth is, dating is worth it.

As long as you are someone who wants to have a partner in your life, dating is worth it.

It puts someone in your life that is supposed to stick by your side during the good and bad times.

This is a woman that gives you advice and lifts your spirits up when you are down emotionally.

She becomes your other half.

A woman you get to share experiences with, which only enriches said experiences.

All of this is good.

The fear you have about being with a partner that cheats on you is warranted.

It’s natural to be fearful of this outcome, given what you have seen in your social circle.

Knowing that your friends, coworkers, and family members have cheated on their partners, doesn’t help in boosting your confidence in the idea of having a partner of your own.

Nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that dating isn’t worth it.

As human beings, we innately desire being with someone to share our lives with.

If you choose to remain single for the rest of your life, you run a risk of becoming depressed out of loneliness.

Loneliness is a tough emotion to deal with.

Some people can handle it.

But, most people can’t.

It is worth it to take a chance on dating to avoid loneliness.

Listen, there are no guarantees that you won’t get cheated on should you decide to date.

But there is also a chance that you won’t get cheated on.

There are ways to mitigate the risk of getting cheated on by a partner.

Making sure that you vet the person beforehand is a first step.

Look at her dating history and ensure that she doesn’t have a history of cheating on her previous partners.

A woman that has had long-term relationships with no cheating, is a woman that is worth dating.

Given her history of being faithful in her past relationships, she is less likely to cheat on you.

And no, such a woman is not a unicorn.

She exists.

Find a woman like this in more conservative circles such as churches, volunteer organizations that serve the community, and bookstores.

Furthermore, a woman who has friends and family who are primarily in healthy relationships, where there is no cheating, is a good candidate for a relationship.

This means that she has been surrounded by healthy relationships her entire life.

This is the example that she would want to follow in her own relationships, given that it is what she is used to being around.

And no, a woman with this life experience is not a unicorn either.

Lastly, having constant communication about your individual needs as partners in a relationship is paramount.

Too often, couples forget about having these discussions, as they get into the humdrum stage of a relationship.

You mustn’t do this.

Have regular conversations about where you are at emotionally in the relationship and what is needed or lacking.

This keeps the two of you on the same page.

It facilitates in maintaining satisfaction in the relationship so that neither party ever feels the urge to cheat.