Your boyfriend isn’t excited about the prospect of talking to you or hanging out with you.

The conversations with you have become unbearable.

You keep talking about the same topics.

Whenever he has tried talking to you about new topics, you aren’t all that engaged in the conversation.

He is the only one that is showing any real enthusiasm to talk about new topics of conversation.

Sadly, you have an inclination to fall back on the topics you prefer talking about.

Those are the same old topics that are in your comfort zone, but end up boring him.

He is frustrated that you aren’t as proactive as he has been in introducing new topics of conversation, nor in keeping them going.

Additionally, he has talked about partaking in new activities with you.

You haven’t shown much enthusiasm to participate in these new activities.

The few moments where he has gotten you to participate in a new activity with him, there has been no energy on your end.

This makes it less likely that he enjoys the activity, and he ends up giving up on keeping it going.

Basically, your boyfriend doesn’t enjoy talking to you and hanging out with you on account of how reluctant you have been to partake in new topics of conversation with him and new activities.

He is tired of the monotony.

As of now, he still loves you.

That being said, he is resorting to looking to his friends to aid in killing the monotony.

The more time he spends talking to and hanging out with his friends, the greater the risk he bumps into a girl that captures his attention.

He meets her while hanging out with friends, doing an activity that you weren’t keen on doing with him in the past.

That makes him think about what he has been missing out on, and all of a sudden, he is asking this girl for her socials.

Before he knows it, he goes down a rabbit hole, looking into her life on her social media.

He sees the exciting activities that she is involved in and thinks about how much fun it would be to do those activities with her.

These are activities that he knows you have shown no interest in whenever he has suggested doing them with you.

Next thing he knows, he is constantly thinking about this exciting girl, and inadvertently loses feelings for you.

This is the worst case scenario.

The longer this monotony in this relationship persists, the higher the likelihood it becomes a reality.

It’s time to get out of your comfort zone and open yourself to talking about new topics in conversation, as you take part in new activities in tandem.

All of this rejuvenates your boyfriend.

It gets him excited about the prospects of talking to you or hanging out with you.

This keeps him from feeling the need to spend more time talking to and hanging out with with his friends.

Make these corrections now, and avoid putting your boyfriend on a path that eventually leads to him losing feelings for you.