Sadly, you haven’t had any luck on dating apps as a single guy.
You have barely gotten matches since you signed up.
The few matches you have received ended up leading to further frustration.
Several of them were scammers and catfishes.
The few that were legitimate didn’t result in dates.
After a few message exchanges, the conversations tapered off.
These moments have been so disappointing.
It never feels good to be chatting to a woman, thinking that a romantic connection is being established, only to have her start ignoring your messages out of nowhere.
Whenever this has happened, you have gone back to read the conversation threads and have never seen anything that would have caused her to stop replying to your messages.
These moments are worse than the moments where you have matched with scammers and catfishes.
To be seemingly so close and yet so far, is nothing but mental torment.
All of the misfortune you have encountered on dating apps as a single guy has led you to believe that you don’t have any luck on dating apps.
It’s not like you have had much luck in meeting women in your day to day life either.
There have been several moments where you thought that you were connecting with a woman you were attracted to at work, only to learn that she already had a boyfriend, or was already being courted by someone else at work.
There have been a few moments where you have made eye contact with women in public or on the street, and considered approaching them, only to realize that she was waiting on her boyfriend, who would suddenly show up out of nowhere.
Every time you think that you are about to land a woman that you are attracted to, she ends up being someone with a boyfriend or a suitor.
Much of this is the reason why you resorted to dating apps in the first place.
There are people in your social circle who use dating apps.
Thus far, you have heard a mishmash of good and bad accounts about dating apps.
A few people that you know have met their significant others on dating apps, and others have given you nightmare accounts about what they have gone through on dating apps.
Right now, you have more in common with the people in your social circle who have given you nightmare accounts about their time on dating apps.
When you chose to sign up on dating apps, you did so with an open mind.
You didn’t want to be too influenced by either camp.
Basically, you didn’t want to be too excited over the positive accounts you had heard about dating apps, nor too underwhelmed by the negative accounts you had heard about dating apps.
You came into it as clearheaded as you were capable of being.
Yes, you have had no luck with dating apps.
There is a remedy to this.
Think about giving your dating profile a complete overhaul.
Guys on dating apps have a propensity to pay little attention to the quality of photos they post to their dating profile.
They post blurry photos taken too long ago that are unflattering.
The quality of your photos are germane to changing your luck for the better on dating apps.
Hire a professional photographer who specializes in taking photos for dating profiles, and have him take recent photos of you.
Yes, make a monetary investment in your photos and post plenty of them on your dating profile.
The quality of your photos alone raise the grade of your dating profile by as much as 80 percent.
This being said, the quality of the content of your bio is material too.
Good grammar and punctuation goes a long way.
Using a conversational and extemporaneous approach to your bio is recommended.
Yes, make jokes, use emojis, tell stories, be self-deprecating, etc.
All of this humanizes you, making you seem as though you are someone she knows.
This feeling of familiarity makes her far more comfortable with the idea of engaging in a conversation with you on a dating app.
Making these changes to your photos and bio works wonders, changing your luck on dating apps for the better.