Yes, women do obsess over men that aren’t interested in them more than men that are.

Men that are interested in them have already shown their cards.

The mystery is nonexistent with these men, and they are wholly ignorant to that.

Many of these men grovel at her feet and are completely unabashed as they do it.

She has their adulation and attention.

Whatever she says goes.

In their eyes, she can do no wrong.

There is no challenge in men who kiss up to her.

These men come off as weak to her.

They are overzealous and thirsty, all of which are a turn off to her.

On the flip side, men who haven’t shown that they are interested in her are intriguing.

Given how much attention she receives from men, she is surprised that this particular man isn’t interested in her.

She has so many men genuflecting at her feet, and yet, this man isn’t.

Why isn’t he?

This makes her curious about him.

She expends additional effort to get him to see her by dressing more provocatively, putting on extra makeup, and incessantly positioning herself within eyeshot of him.

All of her efforts don’t seem to land.

He isn’t responding to how provocatively she is dressing, her extra makeup, or her never-ending physical repositioning.

He is doing his business oblivious to all of her extra efforts to get his attention.

He is talking to his friends, shopping, scrolling through his smartphone, greeting people, etc.

As far as she knows, he is completely unaware of her existence.

This is what compels her to up the ante to get his attention.

She is sending out her friends to get information about him from his friends.

She is watching what he posts on social media to see whether he has a girlfriend.

While on social media, she wants to see whether he is following any women, and if he is, she is intent on learning about those women.

She is intent on finding out what his physical type is in women, and what activities those women partake in.

Basically, she wants to get as much information on him and what he is into.

The goal being to emulate what he likes.

If she so happens to see that he follows a number of women who have a specific look to them, she mimics those women.

She changes her hair color and wardrobe to match theirs.

She goes to the social venues that these women hang out, with an aspiration to run into him and have him wonder about who the new girl is.

By this stage, she is obsessing over this man.

She wants his attention like no other.

All of this being said, it isn’t a given that a girl becomes obsessed over a man that isn’t interested in her.

A physical attraction towards him is required in tandem.

There are several attractive guys that are interested in her that she has chosen to ignore.

The difference between those attractive guys and this one is that he doesn’t care about her.

He is completely oblivious of her.

This is what creates that intrigue in her.

Human beings are psychologically wired to want what they can’t have.

She already knows that she can have any of the attractive men that are interested in her at any time.

Conversely, she can’t have the man that has shown no interest in her that easily.

This motivates her to go after him, as opposed to welcome the advances of the attractive men that are interested in her.