A girl that wants to hook up isn’t asking you well-thought-out questions that enlighten her on your background.

Her comments in conversation are primarily superficial.

She wants to maintain a tone of lightheartedness and fun.

Nothing too deep.

Meanwhile, she throws several compliments at you that are rooted in sexuality.

She does this to gauge you.

Just as you are gauging her to see whether she wants to hook up, she is gauging you with the same purpose.

She knows she wants to hook up, but isn’t totally positive that you feel likewise.

In keeping the conversations lighthearted, she wants you to remain comfortable.

She doesn’t want to delve too deep into your background so that you don’t become too self-conscious or intimidated.

As she gives you compliments that are rooted in sexuality, she is testing to see whether you respond in kind.

She wants you to compliment her back.

This lets her know that you are playing along.

It increases her confidence and encourages her to take things further.

She uses her body language to further gauge whether you want to hook up, by getting closer to you physically.

In doing this, she is looking to see whether you recoil.

Naturally, being that she wants to hook up with you, she doesn’t want you to recoil.

Not all guys are obvious about their desire to hook up with a girl.

She knows this.

Lots of guys play it safe.

They don’t want to say anything that makes them come off as though all they want is to sleep with the girl.

They maintain a respectful physical distance so as not to make the girl uncomfortable.

They avoid giving her compliments on her physicality or sexuality to steer clear of offending her.

She wants you to break all of those rules.

A girl that is gauging you to see whether you want to hook up with her wants you to be daring.

Not only is she looking to you to return the sexual compliments she gives you, and not recoil when she gets physically closer to you, she wants you to take the lead and demonstrate your carnal desire for her.

No, she doesn’t expect you to rip her clothes off at that very moment.

Nevertheless, she wants you to take over now, and touch her.

Yes, she wants you to take her hand and caress it a little bit as you talk to her.

When you do this, she won’t pull back.

If anything, she smiles and her heartrate elevates.

In her mind, she is wondering about your next move.

When you let her hand go, follow that up by putting your hand on her waist gently.

At this moment, you have her full attention.

Her eyes are locked in with yours, but occasionally lowering to look at your lips.

This is how you know that she wants you to kiss her.

Remember, she wants you to be daring.

Lean in and kiss her.

This is what sets her heart aflutter.

For many women, the act of kissing is more intimate than the act of sex.

But, she does want sex.

This is the moment you ask her whether she wants to come back to your place.

As long as you have followed these steps, not only is she agreeing to it, she is clamoring for it.