She has had her fair share of 10s, and she is no longer impressed.
A hot girl that has agreed to having coffee with you is breaking out of her comfort zone.
She wants to get away from the constant disappointment she has encountered in dating hot guys.
It was your confidence, kindness, wit, and conversational skills.
This has her interested in getting to know more about you.
Don’t overthink it.
Yes, it’s feasible that she gets cold feet and cancels on the coffee date, or worse, ghosts you.
But it’s also feasible that she follows through with the coffee date.
Regardless of what she does, maintaining a confident attitude is vital.
Were she to follow through on meeting you for coffee, she expects to see the same guy that had the courage to ask her out to coffee in the first place.
She expects to see your confidence, kindness, wit, and conversational talent in full display.
Remember, these are qualities that provided the first impression she had of you, compelling her to say yes to coffee.
If that confidence and wit is nowhere to be found on the coffee date, and you are nervous and anxious, she quickly loses interest.
Given that you aren’t a 10, you aren’t used to getting dates with hot girls.
This sets you up to making the egregious mistake of putting her on a pedestal when you meet her for coffee, and acting accordingly.
Guys who luck out on getting a hot girl to meet them on a date make this mistake frequently.
Whatever courage they demonstrated in initially approaching the hot girl, starting a conversation with her, and asking her out on a date, goes out the window, once he is seated across from her at the coffee date.
He is so shocked that he actually got the hot girl to agree to coffee, and see her show up, he stumbles over himself.
He realizes that it was so much easier for him to have summoned up the courage to approach her for a few minutes and ask her to coffee, than it now is to be with her in a coffee shop for an extended amount of time.
At a coffee date, he feels the pressure to impress her for a much longer duration than his initial approach was.
This is where he gets too caught up in the moment and becomes anxious.
Hot girls are good at picking up on nonverbal cues from men.
Throughout her life, she has become accustomed to scared men ogling at her, too frightened to approach and talk to her.
That is one of the reasons why she has primarily dated hot guys.
Hot guys have the confidence that average looking guys don’t, thanks to their good looks and the attention they get from women.
That being said, she is sick of hot guys.
She is tired of the infidelity and lies they wrought.
She is finally ready to give an average looking guy a chance.
You.
That said, if you show up on the coffee date and get nervous, putting her on a pedestal, you have lost her.
Rather, be the same guy that approached her with confidence.
Show her the same kindness, wit, and conversational fluency that made her agree to a coffee date with you in the first place.
As long as you are that guy, you are having a successful coffee date with her, which hopefully leads to a second date.