Women are picky in who they choose to date, and often concerned about their personal safety.
A guy that has social proof has been vetted by society at large.
In having social proof, he has demonstrated that he has normal social relations and isn’t a psychopath.
Yes, women worry about dating a psychopath.
There is a reason why they are so obsessed with true crime stories.
In her own personal life, she has heard her fair share of stories about men who ended up being psychopaths or sociopaths.
She has heard horror stories from her friends, family, and coworkers.
A friend has told her about a nightmare date she went on with a guy that had no social proof who ended up being such a disturbing personality.
He struggled to conduct a proper conversation while on the date and was so awkward throughout.
By the end of the date, her friend was so uncomfortable, she feared for her personal safety when he insisted on walking her to her car.
Women tell each other all sorts of horror stories about guys that they have gone out on a date with, or guys that have approached them in public.
The more negative the stories are, the more a woman becomes resolute in wanting to date men with social proof.
A man with social proof isn’t deemed awkward.
He has friends in real life and followers on social media.
This means that he has been chosen by these people.
It makes her feel safer to know that people have already vetted him and chosen to become his friend or follower.
As a plus, he is popular.
A popular guy has societal value.
People listen to what he has to say and are influenced by his words.
This is powerful.
A woman likes the idea of dating a man who has the respect of his peers and society at large.
It makes her feel that much better about dating him, as it elevates her social status.
Men with social proof have these advantages with women.
In light of female nature, it isn’t surprising that they place such an importance on a guy’s social proof.
It isn’t anywhere near the same the other way around, given that men aren’t as picky as women, and aren’t constantly worried about their personal safety when they are dating women.
Men don’t prepare to go out on dates with women with an underbelly of anxiety in regards to their personal safety.
Unlike women, they aren’t in the habit of letting their closest friends and family members know who they are about to meet and where.
He hasn’t spent the days leading up to the date doing his own online research about the girl’s criminal background.
Women do.
They do their research on a guy ‘s criminal history.
Men and women have a totally different approach to how they approach dating.
Given that men are usually the ones who woo a girl and come up with conversation topics, they aren’t all that concerned about a girl’s social acumen, as long as she knows how to speak.
They mainly care about whether she is pretty and whether they get along.
A woman’s social proof has little to no bearing to a guy.